Better looks mean better chance for sex?

[Polo2847]

So I was on Facebook and from time to time, I see guys post pictures of themselves with abs. That made me think, does having a fit body, like abs, muscles, increase chances of having sex? For those who have a fit body/abs/muscles, did you lose your v-card yet? It just seems like those who workout to get toned muscles have lost their v-card and want to attract more mates.

[Saint of Sinners]

To answer your question: Probably, but not always.

[chrisawesome]

Yes, we do have more sex. Just imagine, would you rather have sex with a flabby girl with a little body hair, or a fit one with nice breasts? Which one do you think is most likely to get fucked?

[ksdnfkfr]

Yup afraid so. Someone with lots of money to spend on someone else comes in second.

[McAK101]

To answer your question, yes. There are some boys that will make post after post of there abs on Facebook just aiming for attention. But there are others, like myself, who do not do that kind of stuff. If I want someone to like me, I want them to like me for who I am not how fit my body is. They can find that out later down the road.

[kylem1229]

Yeah, but its stupid. They should go for personality/love, not how your body looks.

[mwahablablah634]

to get a gf they need to find you more attractive. so the better you look better the gf chances i guess. then that is sex so yeah they do probably.

[borborygmi]

if you are financially unstable, having a better looks might give you an edge to attract girls. but if you are quite rich or you have a sports' car to mention, no matter how fat and ugly you are, i am telling you, there are pretty girls out there who would to hook up with you. lol

[Reserved]

Yes. (Most) Women have an innate desire to have sex with the man that can offer protection and offer the best genetics (done by showing muscle). It's survival of the fittest and selective breeding taking place.

[DamoMac]

It certainly doesn't hurt. I have a few mates i have no problem admitting are incredibly good looking, and it's certainly an advantage for them

[Harley Quinn]

As this can apply to both genders, Boys :arrow: Both.

[Forsakenbymyself]

Maybe it does increase your chances of girls approaching you, just being social. All else follows.

[Emerald Dream]

This is just my opinion, but this is really off-base for me. Looks do not mean as much to me as - intelligence, humor, personality, devotion, and honesty. My definition of "hot" includes all of the above.

I would be with someone with what some would call "average" looks 100x before I would be with a "hottie" that I don't really know or like.

[TheBigUnit]

yes.

[Luminous]

Sometimes, but if you're already in a relationship it doesn't matter.

[Get Outta Compton]

Honestly, how fit you are doesn't really matter unless you're thin or overweight. Facebook is the place where insecure douchebags post photos of themselves in order boost their lack of confidence by trying to find an easy girl after spending their life wasting their body on 'roids. It's all in the personality and attitude, buddy. Confidence is everything! :cool:

I'm fit because of sports, but I don't weigh 200 lbs. of pure muscle either and I lost my virginity at 15, not that it matters anyway. As long as you're not a physical wreck, you're good and remember that sex is not a competition and is very personal, so how much sex you have and when you have it depends exclusively on you and what you want.

[Suave]

Yeah, better looking guys get more girls. Girls also don't want to get crushed by some overweight person.

[Verde]

It helps to get offers, doesn't mean you'll take them.

[darthearth]

It totally increases chances like exponentially. The people at school who are the most attractive have the boyfriends and girlfriends early on. Isn't this obvious? And shouldn't it be that way? Guys put so much time and effort into having a hot body, shouldn't they be rewarded? I think they deserve it. Male animals all around the world put on big shows to attract mates, it's solid biology. Guys with hot bodies are just like all the other males that live. And yes I am fit, supposedly "attractive" and I have lost my V-card to answer the OP (actually I hate stating this, only because the OP asked).

[irogers707]

Society is messed up like that. We live in a "beauty is skin deep" world. Its sad but true...

[Joey.]

Guys who have amazing body's/pretty faces etc
are more likely to have intercourse.

Just how life works..
Sad, but true.

[Amazerful]

Society is messed up like that. We live in a "beauty is skin deep" world. Its sad but true...

This is completely true

[darthearth]

Society is messed up like that. We live in a "beauty is skin deep" world. Its sad but true...

This is completely true

Guys who have amazing body's/pretty faces etc
are more likely to have intercourse.

Just how life works..
Sad, but true.



I don't understand responses like this. The OP is talking about actual physical sex, not relationships. These responses would make sense if we were saying that physically "hot" people are way more likely to be able to have a relationship with someone. Can you guys please explain this to me? Very confused. Why would "hot" guys having more physical sex (again, not speaking about relationships, but just sex) be "sad, but true."???

Is it still "sad, but true" if not so hot people have better quality relationships?

[irogers707]

I don't understand responses like this. The OP is talking about actual physical sex, not relationships. These responses would make sense if we were saying that only attractive people can have a relationship with someone. Can you guys please explain this to me? Very confused. Why would "hot" guys having more physical sex (again, not speaking about relationships, but just sex) be "sad, but true."???

Is it still "sad, but true" if not so hot people have better quality relationships?

If you are fat, and what society thinks of as ugly, MOST people won't wanna have sex with you. I used to be 330lbs with a face full of pimples, and I never had sex. It wasn't until my skin cleared, and I lost 120lbs that people actually started wanting to have sex with me.
I know from experience that people won't have sex with the fat ugly guy.

[Rukua]

It definitely helps in their favor, I would KILL to have a hot body.
But if they're hot, they're also probably persuasive & manipulative.. they're probably the main factors here.

If you're dedicated enough, get a ridiculously toned body & find out for yourself. :)

[kitten13]

i think the hotter you are can get you more girls but i think the hotter you are to me the less you'll be in to me and more in to getting me in to bed. so i'll take to shy guy and know he is more to be in to me.

kim

[joshylandon]

I guess that's true. Handsome guys in my school always got surrounded by girls lol

[emilysut]

sometimes, but i would rather be with someone sweet and caring and overweight than with someone who is fit if they are a jerk

[Bree]

That's not always the case but a fit nice body always looks good

[Themale]

It didn't hurt for me also the fact that I'm an mma fighter was the real turn on tbh once I mention that I ever really turn off some girls or really turn them on but ye it works for me but u can't blame the majority of girls cuz genetics has made most of them attracted to men who they feel can protect them

[highschool]

in terms of a hookup, yes, being attractive means you have a better chance. But when looking for a real relationships, you don't need to be super hot

[Sandra Main]

This is just my opinion, but this is really off-base for me. Looks do not mean as much to me as - intelligence, humor, personality, devotion, and honesty. My definition of "hot" includes all of the above.

I would be with someone with what some would call "average" looks 100x before I would be with a "hottie" that I don't really know or like.

This holds so true for me as well.
And love will follow.What is sex without love?
Looks is only skin deep but love goes goes
deep to the bone.

[Kuurachan]

Muscles are attractive on anyone, male or female, in my opinion. Cause with strength you can do things. I never understand why do many girls are mad about having thick legs or not looking fragile enough, to them I would say "girl, you look freakin hot".
With a strong partner you would have a better chance of living in an outbreak of zombies/vampires/etc.
We're all gonna get old and ugly, so we might as well enjoy right now with or without noticeable flaws. Love isn't what you see, but what you feel.

[Waleedbt]

If we are talking about just getting with a girl but not a relationship, i'm pretty sure looks but also (confidence).

[nklarke]

If you are fat, and what society thinks of as ugly, MOST people won't wanna have sex with you. I used to be 330lbs with a face full of pimples, and I never had sex. It wasn't until my skin cleared, and I lost 120lbs that people actually started wanting to have sex with me.
I know from experience that people won't have sex with the fat ugly guy.

Because at that time you didn't attract them. You won't have sex with someone you aren't attracted to.

[Fallen_Eagle]

In the context of clubbing and hookin up I think that's definitely true.

[Mich015]

HELL NO! You could be totally gorgeous but if your an ass hole your not getting soit much as a smile from me!

[dreamofdante]

Yeah look at me. The ugliest guy on the face of the planet at 18 I'm still a virgin.

[SecretlyKnown]

I hate when people always say its about looks, theres something called personality.

[JollyToes]

I agree w the majority of ppl above. If you are looking for a blow-n-go or a one nighter than looks def play a big roll in someone's decision.

[AlexOnToast]

Unfortunately, being "conventionally attractive" does increase you'r chances, but there are far more ways to get laid than just looking like Johnny Bravo :)

[Croconaw]

That's just the way it is. Society is fucked up.

[Zachary G]

just because a guy has nice abs and a chiseled body doesnt mean that he is more likely to get laid before someone who has an average body -- i think charm and personality have a big role to play in it as well.

[Arsenalfan123]

Yes, we do have more sex. Just imagine, would you rather have sex with a flabby girl with a little body hair, or a fit one with nice breasts? Which one do you think is most likely to get fucked?

^^^ this

[chiisaiaoiryu]

That seems to be the thing nowadays. People are associating good looks for higher chance at sex. Then again, it is true that it's easier to become crazy horny with a good-looking guy than it is if the guy were butt ugly.

Still, looks should only apply to those who go for one-night stands or random FWB scenes. If you're in a committed relationship, looks shouldn't play much if any role in whether or not you get sex. That's my opinion on it.

[LunarScorpio]

Where I go to school it certainly does. The girls don't like dating boys who are not fit and hot.

[foamham]

it also matters how outgoing you are

[dreamofdante]

Definitely why I'm not having sex.

[Elysium]

it also matters how outgoing you are
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