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Jared44
September 24th, 2013, 03:03 PM
Right I started college 3 weeks ago. I do a computing course. Now, there are a few girls on my course but I'm not really interested in them. They seem "geeky". Which I'm not. (not meant to be offensive). Anyway, there is a cafe in our college which loads of girls go to. How would you approach them if I don't know them. I want to find a nice caring attractive girl that doesn't shag around or doesn't show off pictures on Facebook "oh please don't look at me I'm ugly soooo ugly" who just wants attention. I hate those girls, they have no dignity, lowest of the low. Anyway, I would like to find a girl that I actually get along with. I like gaming but I will do other things like quite a bit of sports, bowling and golf. I just don't go much, if I was asked do I would be delighted to oblige. I love going to the cinema and I would take her out to restaurants, I would treat her nice. I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend, I don't particularly like parties but I wouldn't mind going with my friends if they went. I just don't know how to start when they aren't on my course so I can't talk about anything relevant. So has anyone got any suggestions?

Cece14
September 24th, 2013, 03:42 PM
Okay, go to a girl tht you think is cute when she is alone, and start off with: Hey, Im Jared... put your hand out for her to shake and she will probally respond, then ask her how she is:) dont be shy

kylem1229
September 24th, 2013, 03:56 PM
Its honestly short and simple. Walk up and say hi. If she says hi back, try starting a converstation (if she has time). If it works out really well, you can ask to hang out with her again. Dont ask for a phone number the first time if it doesnt go really well, otherwise it will turn around and go south. After a while if things are going well, then you can ask. Dont take it too fast, or too slow.