What are the signs a shy girl likes you?

[clueless_one]

The girl I feel who is interested in me has shown these signs but I'm not sure if its signs of liking me as she seems shy.

Last year, this girl sat down in the group I was with her girlfriends and was the first one who commented/asked me if I wear makeup. After she said this, the other girls at the table I was sitting at started to continue asking if I wear makeup and what type of makeup I use.

This year, she stretched her leg towards me and I stretched mine towards her. We touched feet and the lesson after this occurred, she moved to a clear desk with her girlfriends.

She has been staring at me and looking at me at a distance, when I catch her looking, she looks away and continues talking to her friends.

I selected a venue to go to for a school excursion. This girl and her friends also went to the same venue (I spoke to a friend of mine and this girls girlfriend was close by when I was talking about the venue). At the venue, one of this girls friends offered me cake.

At a meeting before the excursion, I saw this girl and her friends staring at me. I also read the mouth of one of her friends who said "I can't stand him".

The day after the excursion, I spoke to this girl about something that happened at the excursion. When she was replying she seemed shy when replying. Yet, when on the way to the excursion she spoke a little (a few words) to me and didn't seem as nervous as after the excursion.

When she moved to the other table, she stopped speaking to me but seemed to stare/look at me. Only on rare occasions I noticed her shoulders face me and she seemed really relaxed during the lessons.

She rested her head on her hand and shows the inside of her wrist to me. [I read somewhere that this is a sign of flirting.]

She also likes the sport I like and another thing (from what I know)

[Saint of Sinners]

It seems like she may be interested, but the evidence is pretty flimsy. Any other observations?

[Cece14]

She may like you

[teen.jpg]

Do you always analyze everybody's actions?

She might, she might not. If you like her, ask her out.

[clueless_one]

do you always analyze everybody's actions?

She might, she might not. If you like her, ask her out.

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

The stuff in your original posts can't be fully conclusive.

I think the advice that Myles offered is quite good but if you can't take it then you will have to figure out your own way to do things.

And don't blame your heritage because of your ability to find a girlfriend. That's not how it works.

[NeuroTiger]

Be relax and let her be closer friends to you...it's a skill.

[Luminous]

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

Woah. Calm down. You asked for advice, you get advice. But yet, you're not mature enough to take it.

It sounds like she might, but not sure enough that you should be confident in that fact, there's just not enough evidence. I agree that you should try and just ask her out, but in a casual way. The old fashioned 'want to study with me tonight?' sort of thing.

[Living For Love]

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

I also have a terrible genetic background, and I know it can be really annoying. She probably sees you as a "cute" and "shy" friend like she is, so she identifies herself with you. That doesn't mean, however, she's in love with you. Just make sure you correspond to her "signals": if she simles to you, smile back, that kind of thing. I know what you mean when you say you just can't ask her out, that it doesn't work that way, but if you two would like to have a serious relationship, I guess she is expecting you to make the first move.

[teen.jpg]

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

Why would that be it? Why would you even think that?

If a girl says no, she says no. Oh well. Don't be so upset about that. Rejection is a part of life.

And p.s. asking multiple girls out back-to-back isn't such a great look.

[clueless_one]

I also have a terrible genetic background, and I know it can be really annoying. She probably sees you as a "cute" and "shy" friend like she is, so she identifies herself with you. That doesn't mean, however, she's in love with you. Just make sure you correspond to her "signals": if she simles to you, smile back, that kind of thing. I know what you mean when you say you just can't ask her out, that it doesn't work that way, but if you two would like to have a serious relationship, I guess she is expecting you to make the first move.

Finally, someone who understands. :)

It also does not help being an only child too. Get really lonely and depressed. :cry:

[highschool]

I can't just ask her out!

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT. I'VE LOST TOO MANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS THAT WAY.

FUCK THIS... IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF MY FUCKING INDIAN BACKGROUND. CAN'T BE ANYTHING FUCKING ELSE.

No offense but maybe the reason why girls don't like you is because of the way you act. Myles said nothing wrong, your data was weird and it's hard to make a conclusion off of it. And yeah asking her out is probably the best piece of advice because it gets straight to the point.

[clueless_one]

No offense but maybe the reason why girls don't like you is because of the way you act. Myles said nothing wrong, your data was weird and it's hard to make a conclusion off of it. And yeah asking her out is probably the best piece of advice because it gets straight to the point.

Its too difficult.

You try being a shy person, getting the feeling that no one likes you because you like things that they don't like and all they do is make fun of you for liking it. Also being an only child. Its difficult enough. I SAID AGAIN AND AGAIN, I CAN'T ASK ANY GIRLS OUT, ITS TOO HARD FOR ME. :furious:

[highschool]

Its too difficult.

You try being a shy person, getting the feeling that no one likes you because you like things that they don't like and all they do is make fun of you for liking it. Also being an only child. Its difficult enough. I SAID AGAIN AND AGAIN, I CAN'T ASK ANY GIRLS OUT, ITS TOO HARD FOR ME. :furious:

then i'm sorry but you won't have a gf. Girls are usually too shy to ask guys out. You're just gonna have to suck it up oneday if you want a gf. I know it's hard, but it's really not as bad as you think it is. and I know how it feels, i'm a shy person too

[clueless_one]

then i'm sorry but you won't have a gf. Girls are usually too shy to ask guys out. You're just gonna have to suck it up oneday if you want a gf. I know it's hard, but it's really not as bad as you think it is. and I know how it feels, i'm a shy person too

i have asked many girls out before. What you dont know is that i tell them i like them, they don't tell me they like me back, i ask them out, then loose a friend. Its always been like that and i hate it. Its the reason why i feel that its my indian background which causes all of this. I'm not attracted to indian girls. Its just like that. Its all a guessing game, and i hate that even more. I can even list all the girls ive asked out or done something and say what happened.

[teen.jpg]

i have asked many girls out before. What you dont know is that i tell them i like them, they don't tell me they like me back, i ask them out, then loose a friend. Its always been like that and i hate it. Its the reason why i feel that its my indian background which causes all of this. I'm not attracted to indian girls. Its just like that. Its all a guessing game, and i hate that even more. I can even list all the girls ive asked out or done something and say what happened.

You don't have to ask out every girl you like. That comes off as desperate.

I'd say just wait a while, let your whole situation sort itself out, then try again. Because obviously you're not in the right emotional state for this.

[clueless_one]

You don't have to ask out every girl you like. That comes off as desperate.

I'd say just wait a while, let your whole situation sort itself out, then try again. Because obviously you're not in the right emotional state for this.

Hey, Fuck off.

I'm going my final exams of high school and living with depression of being alone. I should rather kill myself and end it all. No one cares about me, I should just fucking end it. Everyone will be happier without me around. CAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANY FUCKING FRIENDS.

[teen.jpg]

Hey, Fuck off.

I'm going my final exams of high school and living with depression of being alone. I should rather kill myself and end it all. No one cares about me, I should just fucking end it. Everyone will be happier without me around. CAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANY FUCKING FRIENDS.

Calm down, because one that's not true, and second I'm not here to talk about that. I'm here about your relationship issues. That's what I'm giving you advice on in this specific thread.

I said you need to wait, which isn't unreasonable at all. You're putting unnecessary emotional stress on yourself.

But you can do whatever you want, I'm not trying to force you or anything.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I can't offer anymore advice then has already been offered. Myles is offering some very reasonable and good advice and I believe it would be in your best interest to follow it.

[Vince]

I am going to be blunt.

You're alone because you have a shitty attitude. You think waaaaay too much. If you stopped thinking "What if?" before you do something, you'd actually get something to done. Stop thinking about the consequences of an action if you crave the reward and just do it. If you choose to sit on your ass and do nothing about it, you obviously don't want it bad enough.

It's not difficult. Here's what you do.
1. Ask girl.
2. Hear reply.
3. Get on with your life.

Simple. If she says no, who gives a damn? Not the end of the world, and she isn't the only girl out there. Treat it like no big deal, and nobody else will treat it like a big deal. You'll stop losing friends. Don't piss and moan when you don't get your way, just move on. Then you'll actually get somewhere.

As for killing yourself, that's idiotic. Nobody is going to happier because you're dead. Want to know what would happen if you died tomorrow? Your immediate family may or may not be saddened for a while, but ultimately they'd get over it and the world would keep on spinning. It's the exact same with every other person on the planet. Nobody cares if you die. People only care about you if you live. But instead of worrying about what other people think, why don't you just do what YOU want to do? You WANT to know if this "shy" girl likes you, so ask her. That's what YOU want to know. The fact that OTHERS might not like this is what's stopping you. You aren't going to get anywhere in life constantly worrying about what others think about you.
That's my advice. Take it or leave it. Sorry for being blunt, but it's the only way to get through to people sometimes.

[clueless_one]

I am going to be blunt.

You're alone because you have a shitty attitude. You think waaaaay too much. If you stopped thinking "What if?" before you do something, you'd actually get something to done. Stop thinking about the consequences of an action if you crave the reward and just do it. If you choose to sit on your ass and do nothing about it, you obviously don't want it bad enough.

It's not difficult. Here's what you do.
1. Ask girl.
2. Hear reply.
3. Get on with your life.

Simple. If she says no, who gives a damn? Not the end of the world, and she isn't the only girl out there. Treat it like no big deal, and nobody else will treat it like a big deal. You'll stop losing friends. Don't piss and moan when you don't get your way, just move on. Then you'll actually get somewhere.

As for killing yourself, that's idiotic. Nobody is going to happier because you're dead. Want to know what would happen if you died tomorrow? Your immediate family may or may not be saddened for a while, but ultimately they'd get over it and the world would keep on spinning. It's the exact same with every other person on the planet. Nobody cares if you die. People only care about you if you live. But instead of worrying about what other people think, why don't you just do what YOU want to do? You WANT to know if this "shy" girl likes you, so ask her. That's what YOU want to know. The fact that OTHERS might not like this is what's stopping you. You aren't going to get anywhere in life constantly worrying about what others think about you.
That's my advice. Take it or leave it. Sorry for being blunt, but it's the only way to get through to people sometimes.

It's fucking difficult for me. I'm alone because i'm a fucking only child and all my friends make fun of the sport I like making me feel like I have no friends because I have nothing to fucking talk about.

Every time I tell a girl I like her, I lose a fucking friend. I fucking hate it. Because i'm already fucking alone. YOU DON'T FUCKING KNOW HOW FUCKING DIFFICULT MY FUCKING LIFE IS BEING AN ONLY FUCKING CHILD.


FUCK THIS SHIT. I HATE YOU ALL. Your not giving me advice. You just want to ruin my life even more by becoming even more fucking alone.

[Lost in the Echo]

It's fucking difficult for me. I'm alone because i'm a fucking only child and all my friends make fun of the sport I like making me feel like I have no friends because I have nothing to fucking talk about.

Every time I tell a girl I like her, I lose a fucking friend. I fucking hate it. Because i'm already fucking alone. YOU DON'T FUCKING KNOW HOW FUCKING DIFFICULT MY FUCKING LIFE IS BEING AN ONLY FUCKING CHILD.


FUCK THIS SHIT. I HATE YOU ALL. Your not giving me advice. You just want to ruin my life even more by becoming even more fucking alone.

Listen, nobody is trying to ruin your life. All everyone has tried to do is help you, and give you advice on your situation. If you don't find it useful, fine. But your reaction was sort of rude and uncalled for.
Just take everyone's response into consideration, because all they've done is try to help you.

[clueless_one]

Listen, nobody is trying to ruin your life. All everyone has tried to do is help you, and give you advice on your situation. If you don't find it useful, fine. But your reaction was sort of rude and uncalled for.
Just take everyone's response into consideration, because all they've done is try to help you.

People are telling me to ask her out. I can't as I will lose a friend. Like aways doing this i've lost a lot of my friends. I already feel as though I don't have any friends so your ruining my life telling me to ask her out.

YOU DON'T KNOW MY SITUATION

[Cygnus]

People are telling me to ask her out. I can't as I will lose a friend. Like aways doing this i've lost a lot of my friends. I already feel as though I don't have any friends so your ruining my life telling me to ask her out.

YOU DON'T KNOW MY SITUATION

You are afraid, that is your situation, you are completely afraid that if you ask her out and she says no you will be lonely, am I right? Have you ever thought of the possibility that 1. she could say yes or 2. you could still be friends with her despite her saying no? Your mind is so fixed into a single possibility that it is what will end up happening because of your fear.

Right now you are overreacting, the only mad person here is you, because your mentality says "I'll loose a friend because I am unable to either ask her out or I will make things purposefully awkward till the point we're not friends" man up. I have asked out 2 girls in the last 2 years, they said no, but I still talk to them and we are good friends. Now confront reality instead of making assumptions or playing victim.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

You are afraid, that is your situation, you are completely afraid that if you ask her out and she says no you will be lonely, am I right? Have you ever thought of the possibility that 1. she could say yes or 2. you could still be friends with her despite her saying no? Your mind is so fixed into a single possibility that it is what will end up happening because of your fear.

Right now you are overreacting, the only mad person here is you, because your mentality says "I'll loose a friend because I am unable to either ask her out or I will make things purposefully awkward till the point we're not friends" man up. I have asked out 2 girls in the last 2 years, they said no, but I still talk to them and we are good friends. Now confront reality instead of making assumptions or playing victim.

This is the perfect advice. If only I could +1 you or something, that was amazing. Now, the_one_1, this is what you should listen to.

[thatcountrykid]

i have asked many girls out before. What you dont know is that i tell them i like them, they don't tell me they like me back, i ask them out, then loose a friend. Its always been like that and i hate it. Its the reason why i feel that its my indian background which causes all of this. I'm not attracted to indian girls. Its just like that. Its all a guessing game, and i hate that even more. I can even list all the girls ive asked out or done something and say what happened.

Bud no offense but maybe they just dont like you back. I doesnt mean thayre racist. And beleive it or not there are othe kids in the world who are only children.

[clueless_one]

You are afraid, that is your situation, you are completely afraid that if you ask her out and she says no you will be lonely, am I right? Have you ever thought of the possibility that 1. she could say yes or 2. you could still be friends with her despite her saying no? Your mind is so fixed into a single possibility that it is what will end up happening because of your fear.

Right now you are overreacting, the only mad person here is you, because your mentality says "I'll loose a friend because I am unable to either ask her out or I will make things purposefully awkward till the point we're not friends" man up. I have asked out 2 girls in the last 2 years, they said no, but I still talk to them and we are good friends. Now confront reality instead of making assumptions or playing victim.

You don't fucking Get It!

I'm fine with being rejected. It's losing them as a fucking friend which is the worst, and it always happens. I am made fun of at school for liking a sport which people don't like. If people treated me a an unique individual that doesn't like something they like and try to grow friendships out of it. I won't care as much about getting a girlfriend because I will have FRIENDS. Because of being made fun of liking a sport, its led me to not talk about anything, nothing. Meaning I get the feeling that I don't have any friends.

MY SITUATION IS I FEEL I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND WANT A GIRLFRIEND SO I FEEL LIKED BY SOMEONE.

But when I try to do something about getting a girl I like, I lose them all together AS A FRIEND.

There you go. I'm LONELY only because people don't treat me like a unique individual with the sport I like and try to grow a friendship. I don't want to lose any more friends.

I HAVE ASKED OUT UP TO 5 GIRLS... ALL OF WITCH I LOST AS FRIENDS AFTER TRYING TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. THEY STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH ME. THEY DON'T SPEAK TO ME AND I TRY TO BE FRIENDLY AND SPEAK TO THEM. I HAVE CONFRONTED MY FUCKING FEARS TIME AND AGAIN, STILL I LOSE GIRLS AS FRIENDS BY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT THIS. I HAVE NO ONE!


FUCK THIS!!!!!!!!!!

Bud no offense but maybe they just dont like you back. I doesnt mean thayre racist. And beleive it or not there are othe kids in the world who are only children.

.THEN WHY THE HELL DO THEY SHOW ME SIGNS OF LIKING ME THEN! THEY TALK TO ME, SEEM INTERESTED AND THEN I START TO LIKE THEM, ASK THEM OUT, LOSE A FRIEND. IT ALWAYS HAPPENS LIKE THAT.


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[Cygnus]

I'm fine with being rejected. It's losing them as a fucking friend which is the worst, and it always happens.

That is why am saying, you have a fixed view of the outcomes, you are just making it worse for yourself. Firstly calm down kid, supersizing something won't make anything better. Second of all, think that you don't have to make things awkward for both of you as I already stated, its not hard. And you know all girls are different, right? Just because some said no doesn't mean this one absolutely will, thats a very negative way to look at it.

If you're so afraid don't do it and be friends with her and stop posting here. But then you will never know and maybe loose an opportunity, all because you are afraid an unwilling to listen to others when you yourself are asking for advice.

[clueless_one]

That is why am saying, you have a fixed view of the outcomes, you are just making it worse for yourself. Firstly calm down kid, supersizing something won't make anything better. Second of all, think that you don't have to make things awkward for both of you as I already stated, its not hard. And you know all girls are different, right? Just because some said no doesn't mean this one absolutely will, thats a very negative way to look at it.

If you're so afraid don't do it and be friends with her and stop posting here. But then you will never know and maybe loose an opportunity, all because you are afraid an unwilling to listen to others when you yourself are asking for advice.

Fuck this... I'm ignoring all posts here now. Fuck it. No one really wants to help me. If you are interested in helping me please message me.

[Cygnus]

Fuck this... I'm ignoring all posts here now. Fuck it. No one really wants to help me. If you are interested in helping me please message me.

We all want to help you, that you don't want to take the help just because you want things to go exactly how you want them to with no little variations doesn't mean we don't want to help you.

[clueless_one]

We all want to help you, that you don't want to take the help just because you want things to go exactly how you want them to with no little variations doesn't mean we don't want to help you.

I am taking the help. But its not help when i've said time again that I have lost girls who I liked even just as friends after asking them out and your all telling me to ask them out. Even if I tell them I like them, I still lose the friendship. Its like any way I do it, I will lose a friend. All I asked was for you to read the signs tell me if it looks like they like me from your opinion and then after getting other peoples ADVICE that way. I will be confident enough to tell her that I like her and want to ask her out. Instead your not doing that. Just telling me to ask her out doesn't help, I will lose a friend which I don't want to do due to my situation. You say that if I don't want to lose a friend don't do anything about it. Then I will be annoyed by people making fun of me liking the sport I like leading to me feeling like I have no friends. To be happy... I don't know what to do. That's why I want to get a girlfriend, and this girl likes this sport I like that everyone makes fun of, making it even more better if I get this girl. But like always I ask out a girl, lose a friend.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

We did answer your original question if you look on the first page. We said it was vague/yes she does. Now you say we didn't answer it? I am sorry but there is little to no advice we can offer. Everything we have said you have either blocked straight away or thought and rejected it.

[DerBear]

Fuck this... I'm ignoring all posts here now. Fuck it. No one really wants to help me. If you are interested in helping me please message me.

Do you want your thread locked then? Right now you're being arrogant towards those who are trying to help you. To be honest if you know what advice you're looking for then why do you need advice in the first place?

You're taking out your anger and frustration about loosing friends once you've asked them out on other people who're doing their best to provide you with help.

[thatcountrykid]

You don't fucking Get It!

I'm fine with being rejected. It's losing them as a fucking friend which is the worst, and it always happens. I am made fun of at school for liking a sport which people don't like. If people treated me a an unique individual that doesn't like something they like and try to grow friendships out of it. I won't care as much about getting a girlfriend because I will have FRIENDS. Because of being made fun of liking a sport, its led me to not talk about anything, nothing. Meaning I get the feeling that I don't have any friends.

MY SITUATION IS I FEEL I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND WANT A GIRLFRIEND SO I FEEL LIKED BY SOMEONE.

But when I try to do something about getting a girl I like, I lose them all together AS A FRIEND.

There you go. I'm LONELY only because people don't treat me like a unique individual with the sport I like and try to grow a friendship. I don't want to lose any more friends.

I HAVE ASKED OUT UP TO 5 GIRLS... ALL OF WITCH I LOST AS FRIENDS AFTER TRYING TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. THEY STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH ME. THEY DON'T SPEAK TO ME AND I TRY TO BE FRIENDLY AND SPEAK TO THEM. I HAVE CONFRONTED MY FUCKING FEARS TIME AND AGAIN, STILL I LOSE GIRLS AS FRIENDS BY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT THIS. I HAVE NO ONE!


FUCK THIS!!!!!!!!!!



.THEN WHY THE HELL DO THEY SHOW ME SIGNS OF LIKING ME THEN! THEY TALK TO ME, SEEM INTERESTED AND THEN I START TO LIKE THEM, ASK THEM OUT, LOSE A FRIEND. IT ALWAYS HAPPENS LIKE THAT.


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Fuck this... I'm ignoring all posts here now. Fuck it. No one really wants to help me. If you are interested in helping me please message me.

Man we're trying to help you but you dont listen. It honestly seems like you dont want to hear others advice and you were hoping they' d agree with you.

I think you over analyze when you think theyre flirting withyou. Some of the things you mentioned , maybe. But most of them really dont seem like flirting and i think you over analyze it.