bullying part... my bf

[Imaustinigeuss]

ok my bb just today told me, that hes being bullied, and I cant do any thing cuz I don't live with him/same state.

I found out cuz when he and i vid chatted he had a broken arm and I asked him what happened and he told me every thing he told teachers and mom and every thing and they didn't give a fuk

I mean if that happened in my state they would like latterly go to jail and idk what to do

and I wuv him and it hurts me to c him like this

any advise?


thnx for help


and well also plz don't ask what I mean I know I have bad grammer I try so plz try and read if u can

[ksdnfkfr]

Shit that's painful. idk what to say except for giving him your love and support which I know you do. I can imagine how aggravating is to feel powerless to do something proactive about it. It's frightening that something as severe as a broken arm would get glossed over like that.

[PinkFloyd]

What he needs is the knowledge that there are people out there that care (especially you.)

I guess what I'm saying is that you need to support him by comforting him.

[Miri]

That was painful to read, partially because I just can't understand how people can let stuff like that happen without doing something about it.

The best thing you can do is be comforting and understanding, and it's obvious how much you care about him, and let me tell you that it's a beautiful thing.

[PoseidonX43]

If the school/teachers/family tell him to talk to the police if it doesn't get better. You need to support him as much as possible, tell him it's going to be ok. Help him when he needs it, and if that means dropping what you're doing then do it.

You need to stay strong for the both of you. I know it hurts to see him like this, you can only do so much to help a person. Don't give up on him. and most importantly don't give up on yourself.

[Xavier2]

It's frightening that something as severe as a broken arm would get glossed over like that.

Yet so sadly believable that even bullying and abuse to that extent would get brushed under the rug, at least in the community I'm familiar with. It's really sweet and admirable that you want to be able to help him as much as you can.

You say he mentioned it to his mum and no help from there, have you talked with her yourself before? Is there a way you can tell her or does he have a dad or another member of his family you could talk to? Let them know you can't bear seeing him like this and want something done now? If that's a no-go, get him to go straight to the police. Absolutely sickens me how teachers and such people would just blindly ignore this type of abhorrent treatment, and if it is happening on school grounds or a place where teachers/school staff could and should intervene is a total breach of their duty of care not to respond appropriately to this.

Stay strong for the both of you buddy, and if the police need to be involved to put a stop to what's happening to your bf then so be it.

[Imaustinigeuss]

If the school/teachers/family tell him to talk to the police if it doesn't get better. You need to support him as much as possible, tell him it's going to be ok. Help him when he needs it, and if that means dropping what you're doing then do it.

You need to stay strong for the both of you. I know it hurts to see him like this, you can only do so much to help a person. Don't give up on him. and most importantly don't give up on yourself.

he did every one just said perty much "walk it off" or around there and his friends r scared of the bully