Am I the only guy that wants to wait, for sex to be special?

[internetuser123abc]

All my friends brag about how they f'd this chick last night and I don't really see the use in it. Don't get me wrong I have a normal sex drive (high if anything) I masturbate a few times a day and of course I want to have sex but I think, especially my first time, should be special with someone I love, not just physical.
I have never known another guy who feels this way, am I the only one? Is it weird?

[Mutah]

That's not weird at all, I feel the same way. I masturbate daily like most others do, and have had the chance to have sex, but still don't go for it. It means more than a teenage fling.

[ksdnfkfr]

All my friends brag about how they f'd this chick last night

And they're lying.

[Cognizant]

That's good on you! Of course, one can argue that they had a infatuation with the person they had sex with (meaning your friends could've done it with a girlfriend or person they liked. I dunno, you didn't give me enough context).

But it's pretty normal to want to wait. I wouldn't want to have my first time with some random stranger I met at a party either.

[Saint of Sinners]

Nah, I don't think it is weird. Many people feel the same way. I'm pretty sure I do.

[TheBigUnit]

All my friends brag about how they f'd this chick last night and I don't really see the use in it. Don't get me wrong I have a normal sex drive (high if anything) I masturbate a few times a day and of course I want to have sex but I think, especially my first time, should be special with someone I love, not just physical.
I have never known another guy who feels this way, am I the only one? Is it weird?
:yes:
I have a ton of respect for you....finally someone in this forum says that he doesnt f every girl with his 10 inch dick...bit exaggerated yes, but the point is, is that its totally normal and dont worry about it, if you feel uncomfortable wait a few years, lets say 90% of the users in this forum are actually virgins even thoigh they may say different in the surveys so dont be discouraged or anything its totally normal

[TheLivingLie]

same thing here. last night i was dreaming about a conversation i had yesterday and thought about how that could have turned into something else... but then i told myself that i want it to my dream girl, when in at least 15.

[thomas.mueller]

i'm still virgin and there is no reason not to wait

[Saint of Sinners]

i'm still virgin and there is no reason not to wait


My sentiments exactly.

[justin 13]

I feel the same way dude.

[josh100]

All my friends brag about how they f'd this chick last night and I don't really see the use in it. Don't get me wrong I have a normal sex drive (high if anything) I masturbate a few times a day and of course I want to have sex but I think, especially my first time, should be special with someone I love, not just physical.
I have never known another guy who feels this way, am I the only one? Is it weird?

Absolutely, I'm much the same as you. When the time feels right, get in there that's what I say but there is no rush. Just do what you are doing.

[Steven1]

You are most defiantly not alone. Hearing another teenage boy who wants to wait till they find someone special to have sex has given me a glimmer of hope in todays society.

[teen.jpg]

I don't have any other choice :lol:

[Brighteyes]

Hmmm....It would seem like am the first and perhaps the only female here to reply to this thread!

I would like to say that she is quite simply going to be one VERY, VERY LUCKY GIRL indeed, in knowing that she is so special that you waited just for her.

I do wish you all the luck in the world, and please remember that she is out there somewhere, waiting just for you to find her.

[internetuser123abc]

Thanks guys... And girls :)

[Plasma]

That is exactly how I feel

[WALLE]

im on the same page as you im saving my first time for someone extra special

[Get Outta Compton]

It's OK to wait.

By the way, your friends are probably lying to cover up their lack of confidence and insecurity.

[Pontiac67]

I am with you too, I have seen a number of guys that have had sex with their gf and next thing you hear is that they are breaking up.. Best to wait and make sure you and she are ready for it. I totally changes your relationship and then there is always the possibility of becoming a Dad. Don't let tose guys that brag about having sex get to you.

[McAK101]

That's exactly how I feel.

[Arsenalfan123]

That's a good thing, however at this moment in time I don't feel that way. Just a personal thing

[highschool]

i'm not a guy, but i agree with you. like i've given a guy a bj, but going all the way is a big deal for me

[anyone50]

i'm not a guy, but i agree with you. like i've given a guy a bj, but going all the way is a big deal for me

It's refreshing to hear that because it was a big deal for me as well. even though I didn't have much of a choice my first time

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I totally agree with you OP, I want to wait for someone special, makes it more memorable I say?

[ecota580]

im the same bro

[EneasR]

I want to do it with my crush :wub: