How do you know if you are...

[justin 13]

Top or Bottom? When u realized what style u prefer? Why some guys likes both ways? Can you tell without asking if someone is top or bottom? I think I'm top but I'm not sure. My friend told me you are kinda bottom but I don't agree with him.

[Syvelocin]

Obviously I'm not a gay man, but I would say the two sensations are different. Someone may think it feels better to penetrate and the other may think it feels better to be penetrated. Like I personally cannot achieve vaginal orgasm, like many women. It does absolutely nothing for me. But they're different feelings too, so some like both. I would say I despise the labeling as top and bottom, but being a gay woman is a little different in that respect. As long as both partners are participating, it's all good.

[ugaboy]

Well, this question is something I am thinking about. Never had any experience with either, except just about 1" - doing both. Me and my friend are planning on doing this, and I guess we both have the same questions. I think I will be ok either way, but my bf thinks he will only like top, but is willing to try both. Guess we wont really know until we do it.

[Second Chance]

The only way you can know for sure whether you're a top or bottom is through experience. Like the guy above said, either you will like to do the penetrating or be penetrated. When you become sexually active, then you'll figure out what you like. It is not like you can tell who's a top or a bottom just be looking at them. It all depends on how you feel during sex and what parts of your body you like getting stimulated during sex. There is no right or wrong answers for being a top or a bottom, and trying to figure out which is better or is right for you is like asking how high is up. You'll figure it out as you try out different things.

[ksdnfkfr]

Haven't done it, but thought about it of course and talked about it with my bestie.
We both agreed that we'd want to do both ways.

[Abyssal Echo]

The only way you can know for sure whether you're a top or bottom is through experience. Like the guy above said, either you will like to do the penetrating or be penetrated. When you become sexually active, then you'll figure out what you like. It is not like you can tell who's a top or a bottom just be looking at them. It all depends on how you feel during sex and what parts of your body you like getting stimulated during sex. There is no right or wrong answers for being a top or a bottom, and trying to figure out which is better or is right for you is like asking how high is up. You'll figure it out as you try out different things.

Exactly this ^ experience is the only way to figure out what you like and what you don't.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

The only way you can know for sure whether you're a top or bottom is through experience. Like the guy above said, either you will like to do the penetrating or be penetrated. When you become sexually active, then you'll figure out what you like. It is not like you can tell who's a top or a bottom just be looking at them. It all depends on how you feel during sex and what parts of your body you like getting stimulated during sex. There is no right or wrong answers for being a top or a bottom, and trying to figure out which is better or is right for you is like asking how high is up. You'll figure it out as you try out different things.

Quite correct.

[ImCoolBeans]

Your friend saying "you're a bottom" is kind of silly. You can't accurately judge somebody's preference like that. Stereotypes aren't always true :P

[sqishy]

I don't know yet, because I've never tried it. I do jack off facing down though.