Asking out a Girl when Bi

[Verminicious Knid]

I'm 15 and I've been Bisexual for about 3 years (Not openly).

I do like this girl and have been thinking about asking her out. But I find myself looking at boys occasionally.

I'm not sure if it's right to ask her or not?

[Mynick]

If you like her, sure ask her. Plus you don't need to tell her that you are bi right away.

[Verminicious Knid]

Thanks, I was thinking of that.

Thanks! :)

[Croconaw]

Yeah. I think you should ask her. But don't tell her right away that you're bi. That can wait. :)

[Victory]

For some reason a lot of lesbians are turned off by bi chicks. I'm not, but I've talked to a few that are and apparently it's a normal thing. I guess I can understand why, but yeah. I mean, if you're checking out guys it'd be just like a straight relationship in which a guy checks out a girl or the other way around. If she's a lesbian, it'd probably be best to feel around and see what her thought on bi girls are before telling her you're bi. If she has a problem with them, I'd just say that's one that didn't work out.

[Second Chance]

I don't see any problems with asking her out since your also into girls. However, if your with her, then you have to only be with her and not do stuff with guys on the side. Also, if you two become really close, then it is best to be honest with her about your sexuality especially if you have done stuff with other guys.

In the short-term, you have nothing to loose to ask her out, and as long as you are only with her, then I am sure it is worth a try.

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However, if your with her, then you have to only be with her and not do stuff with guys on the side.

That's kind of a given ... you didn't need to say that because he's bi, I'd hope he already knew that.

But yeah, you should just ask her out, and if it works out you can tell her whenever you like, but if you wait too long she may have a problem with that.

[Verminicious Knid]

Thanks for the replies guys, it's nice to know people are willing to give such great advice.

I asked her out last week and she said no, though we're still friends.

I'm disappointed but just proud of myself for doing it, it's the first time I've asked somebody out.

[Second Chance]

Thanks for the replies guys, it's nice to know people are willing to give such great advice.

I asked her out last week and she said no, though we're still friends.

I'm disappointed but just proud of myself for doing it, it's the first time I've asked somebody out.

Good for you for at least trying, and I would not feel bad. At least you both are still friend which shows that you have positive qualities she likes though not as a boyfriend. It is scary asking someone out the first time, but it seems that things worked out for you. I am sure it is better that you two stay friends, and no doubt you'll find someone sooner rather than later.

[Cece14]

go for it!!!!!!!!

[McAK101]

If you like her, go for it. Being bi should not steer you away from someone that you are attracted too.

[seamo34]

I'm 15 and I've been Bisexual for about 3 years (Not openly).

I do like this girl and have been thinking about asking her out. But I find myself looking at boys occasionally.

I'm not sure if it's right to ask her or not?

ya i have been in the same dilema before go with whatever makes you happy :P

[Emerald Dream]

ya i have been in the same dilema before go with whatever makes you happy :P

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