Log in

View Full Version : I like this girl. What do i do?


Jared44
September 23rd, 2013, 12:29 PM
Right, I started college 2 weeks ago, and I've never had a girlfriend or any type of relationship with another girl. I'm 16 by he way. Now I was in a lift and there was just me and a few other girls. 3 of them were together and another one on her own. The 3 girls got off on the 4th floor. And there was me and the other girl left. It sounds stupid but I said "awkward" in a joking way and she smiled and giggled. By this time she got off at the 6th floor and I got off at the 7th floor. Now I don't know who she is and what she does. All I know is the 6th floor is where they have post 16 which does A levels. I wouldn't know where to find her and what to say if I even see her. She looks attractive and honestly she's made a good impression by responding in a friendly manner rather than ignoring or frowning. Any ideas anyone?

Mynick
September 23rd, 2013, 12:38 PM
I don't think we can help you find her BUT next time you see her, say hello start a conversation. That's pretty much all you need to do. Talk a bit about yourself, and if you are lucky she'll do the same. You'll get to know her and become friends, then you'll see if she fancys you.
Best of luck.

Jared44
September 23rd, 2013, 02:31 PM
Thanks a lot, I'll let you know if anything happens. Really appreciate your help.

Running420
September 23rd, 2013, 03:33 PM
What building have that many damn floors??? :O

Luminous
September 23rd, 2013, 03:41 PM
First off kudos to you for going to college at 16 years old, my brother did that, it's a big deal. I don't know my brother very well as he's 10 years older than me and moved out when I was only 6, but apparently he's a genius. At least that's the rumor.
Back on topic, don't stalk her. Don't frequent the area where you met her. That's creepy, and the last thing you want to do is creep her out. Wait on finding her. When you bump into her again, I'm sure you will sometime, pounce on the opportunity. Start a conversation. Be nice. Compliment her. Get her name and if you think she's comfortable with you, her number. If you don't think she's okay for that yet, find her some other time. My biggest tip for you is don't be a creepy stalker.

kylem1229
September 23rd, 2013, 03:46 PM
Honestly, agree with the people above. Its pretty much short and simple. Just say hi, if she says hi back, see if she has time to start a conversation. (I'd personally wait to get the number later...getting it the first day is sort of too fast).

Jared44
September 23rd, 2013, 04:48 PM
What building have that many damn floors??? :O

It has 8 in total

First off kudos to you for going to college at 16 years old, my brother did that, it's a big deal. I don't know my brother very well as he's 10 years older than me and moved out when I was only 6, but apparently he's a genius. At least that's the rumor.
Back on topic, don't stalk her. Don't frequent the area where you met her. That's creepy, and the last thing you want to do is creep her out. Wait on finding her. When you bump into her again, I'm sure you will sometime, pounce on the opportunity. Start a conversation. Be nice. Compliment her. Get her name and if you think she's comfortable with you, her number. If you don't think she's okay for that yet, find her some other time. My biggest tip for you is don't be a creepy stalker.

That's a lot of information that seems very honest and useful, I'll definitely take this into account.

What building have that many damn floors??? :O

It has 8 in total

First off kudos to you for going to college at 16 years old, my brother did that, it's a big deal. I don't know my brother very well as he's 10 years older than me and moved out when I was only 6, but apparently he's a genius. At least that's the rumor.
Back on topic, don't stalk her. Don't frequent the area where you met her. That's creepy, and the last thing you want to do is creep her out. Wait on finding her. When you bump into her again, I'm sure you will sometime, pounce on the opportunity. Start a conversation. Be nice. Compliment her. Get her name and if you think she's comfortable with you, her number. If you don't think she's okay for that yet, find her some other time. My biggest tip for you is don't be a creepy stalker.

That's a lot of information that seems very honest and useful, I'll definitely take this into account.

The only other thing I'm wondering is what if she already has a boyfriend/girlfriend (if she's lesbian)? How would I find out? I'm thinking it would be wierd saying "have you got a boyfriend?"

Please don't post consecutively, if you have something you need to add to your original post, use the edit button.:) ~Lost in the Echo

sqishy
September 23rd, 2013, 04:49 PM
Agreed with the others. Good Luck :D

Luminous
September 23rd, 2013, 04:56 PM
The only other thing I'm wondering is what if she already has a boyfriend/girlfriend (if she's lesbian)? How would I find out? I'm thinking it would be wierd saying "have you got a boyfriend?"

Hopefully if you get to know her as a friend she will tell you.

Waleedbt
September 23rd, 2013, 05:19 PM
Trust me , she will bring thr boyfriend topic up if she has one, i met this girl and she told me the first day while we were having lunch at college :p

jen698
September 23rd, 2013, 09:59 PM
next time you see her just ask her out to dinner

Saint of Sinners
September 24th, 2013, 05:56 AM
Do what the others said. In addition, try to appear as friendly as possible, and in the event she does indeed have a boyfriend( hoping she doesn't :)) try not to just disappear and cease contact. It's rather rude imo.