View Full Version : Ex GF Wants to come over. Input needed
FroMan641
September 23rd, 2013, 01:02 AM
Some background, school was about to start my gf was stressed distant whatever else didn't want anything to do with me at the time so I said you know what let's just stop talking and about 3 weeks later she wants to come over and spend the night. I'm 15 btw. Now I am over her but I wouldn't mind going back. It could have turned out better, so anyway she tried staying over last week but ended up going to her friends and told me she still wants to come over Friday so what could this mean? She wants me back? She wants to simply hang? What is the reason?
Thanks for your time. PS she does text me but not really as flirty as it was if a "girl liked" me but we text alot
Saint of Sinners
September 23rd, 2013, 05:58 AM
It could be either really. Do you want her to come? You don't have to agree if you don't want to. If she does come over, then you would probably be able to tell her reasons. Personally though, I suspect she may just want to hang, however you should ask for others opinions before you do anything.
Living For Love
September 23rd, 2013, 08:57 AM
It seems to me that she is kind of insecure about the relationship she has with you. If you want her to come, tell her to come, but if you see that she only likes you as a friend, and the same happens with you, so it's better not to insist any longer.
Cece14
September 24th, 2013, 03:50 PM
invite her over and see how you feel about it
kylem1229
September 24th, 2013, 03:51 PM
If you still have feelings about her, go for it. Make sure you ask her though if she just wants to be friends, or wants to try another go at it.
GingerHannah
September 24th, 2013, 05:08 PM
My opinion is that you should have her over, and see how the night goes. If you are quite close to each other by the end of it then I'd go for asking her out again. However if it's a bit awkward or not as you hoped then I would move on.
Good luck with it :)
faceinthecrowd
September 24th, 2013, 05:32 PM
Only time will tell. Maybe she's just confused.
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