is it too much to ask for a serious relationship

[ArmyGuardsman]

My girlfriend who I've been dating for a month and have already kissed, wants a break to settle some stressful things in her life right now that doesn't have the time for a relationship with me. I have never had a serious relationship in my life yet and I want one with her. And I didn't have much luck with girls before her. Her being the 1st girl I ever kissed. I want more in our relationship if she actually wants one. I'm 18 and obviously a virgin and I want to lose my virginity to her, I love her and want to be with her, I just want one good thing in my life, what should I do?

[Saint of Sinners]

Well, she isn't breaking up with you, she's just taking a break to settle some stuff. Maybe you should let her have some time for that. The thing is, you can't rush these sort of things, you have to go with the flow. Be patient, I'm sure it'll all work out:)

[ksdnfkfr]

My girlfriend who I've been dating for a month and have already kissed, wants a break to settle some stressful things in her life

How long of a break do you expect this to be?

[ArmyGuardsman]

Me and her have developed our relationship over the years. She was there for me when my last girlfriend dumped me and made my life hell. We wrote letters to each other when I went to basic training where we both admitted we had feelings for each other for a long time. So I'm not wanting to lose her, I want her to be with me for a long time.

[ArmyGuardsman]

I think it might be a couple of weeks at least

[ksdnfkfr]

Why is two weeks such a problem?

[Living For Love]

We all need some time to clear things up in our minds, tell her that you're always available in case she needs any help and let her solve her problems in her own way. You just need to give her some space.

[ksdnfkfr]

I think it might be a couple of weeks at least

Why is two weeks such a big problem?

[ArmyGuardsman]

I said at least I'm not sure how long it might take and another thing is me and her live a 40 mile distance away from each other so we don't see each other every single day