I need advice

[japanman]

:whoops:im very shy when comes to asking a girl does anyone have advice :whoops:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

My advice is to wait on asking her out until you think there's a chance she'll say yes. Think about how great it would be if she said yes, think of how happy you two would be, all of the good things that may come with having a girlfriend. Think about that when you ask her, let it give you the confidence to go through with it, and remember that it'll be hard to get there without asking her. There's a chance she may say no, but don't let that hold you back. If she does say no, it's ok. It just means that there's going to be another girl out there who may even be better. :)

[japanman]

thx ill start thinking about :D

[japanman]

oh btw um it when comes to finally asking her out would it be good idea to ask her out right away or start a conversation about wut she likes.
sry if i seem desperate

[Activate]

You can't plan a date to ask her. When you two are talking and the right moment comes you should make your move ;)

[japanman]

o thx for the advice :):D

[japanman]

i think ill talk to her tomarrow at school wish me luck:P

[sweetiepie]

Hello, this was the right thing that you have done. I don’t think that you were wrong.
All the best!

[japanman]

ok well yesterday i had just got the courage to ask her out when i realized she might have a boy friend. so i think i should ask her friends if she does have a boyfriend or not.if she does ill just have to wait:(. im going to ask her friends to see if she does have a boyfriend on monday anyone got advice to how i could bring that subject up.:whoops:

[japanman]

:(i just heard that the girl i liked has a boy friend so im just gonna be freinds with her. i just hope i dont have very strong feelings for her cause that could rouine it. thx vt this site has been very helpfull exspiecally here i like this place ill hang around this site for now:Po and thx u Teeny's Sis and Stray_Cat you two were very helpfull and that is why i thank u. i just gotta wait till i find the person i really like after all im only 13 and 4 months i still have a long life ahead of me:) o by the way her name is jackie shes my first crush i guass thats wut u would call it

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

(...) shes my first crush i guass thats wut u would call it

Awh, I remember my first crush. I was 3, his name was Johnathon. I thought I was going to marry him. And then one day we went out to recess at preschool and he told me he was gonna go play with the twins, Meghan and Christina, that day instead of me. I was devastated. Haha, I honestly was, it was a big deal at the time. And then we went off to different schools for kindergarten and I never saw him again. Ran into the twins in dance class and again in high school though. *shrugs* I'm glad I didn't marry Johnathon. The boyfriend I have now is much better; he'd never ditch me for a pair of twins. xP

[japanman]

:lol::lol: thats funny i felt the same then bam i found out she had a boyfriend but ill find someone else:P

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Exactly, you'll find someone better. :)

[japanman]

thx for the advice you were very helpfull :D

[japanman]

tomaroow im goin to an 8th grade dance :cool: i hope to just have fun and hang out btw im not a very good dancer so i just thought id tell you guys and gals at vt:)

[japanman]

everythings has gone good so far but i kinda of want to tell my best friend so i just wanted to check in and tell you guys :)

[Patchy]

everythings has gone good so far but i kinda of want to tell my best friend so i just wanted to check in and tell you guys :)

well can you trust your mate with secrets or would he tell everyone, think b4 you tell and what could happen if he told everyone.

[japanman]

nothing really and ive been friends with him for 5 years hes not ever know to be a gossip starter hes quite doesnt talk very much keeps secrets for long periods of time i think i can trust him:)