how to stop confusion of sexuality vs culture

[Zebb]

I think this is the right forum.

But my question is how or if anyone has been in this situation before is how to stop my mom from confusing my sexuality with my other culture which is the indian culture since my dad is from india and mom is from states.

Problems is in the indian culture men that are family are very close. Like one of my indian cousins that lives here. Men in india walk hand in hand, hug, kiss on cheek, hold hands sometimes. With my cousin that came over this weekend mom was asking dad did she think i was becoming gay. He asked why and how. She explained and explained his home culture.

My side is that ok he and i may be a little to intimate but were family and i am close with him. Yes i am a nude sleeper and he slept in the same bed but he had on underwear(until i pulled them off) and nothing sexual happened. But because we were cuddled up together his back against stomach and my arms around his waist my mom thinks i like boys. Not to mention the only reason she saw us was because we had just showered fell asleep on top of the covers she has no clue we have always done this with each.

Anyone have any friendly suggestions.

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That's ... um ... different ... I guess I could say. Just tell her that you guys are close.

[ksdnfkfr]

I think sleeping nude with a family member would be considered somewhat disturbing to most in any culture, including the Indian culture and the Gay culture.

[Zebb]

I think sleeping nude with a family member would be considered somewhat disturbing to most in any culture, including the Indian culture and the Gay culture.

Not really. I only have one bed and i sleep naked all the time. We did nothing sexual

[ksdnfkfr]

Not really. I only have one bed and i sleep naked all the time. We did nothing sexual

Yeah, really most people would have a problem with it. It may okay between the two family members, but it's going to be a problem with most everyone else. To quote one of my teachers: "Perception is everything". It would be in your best interest to put something on.

[Zebb]

Well glad she doesnt know we bathed each other in the shower. But i dont have a sexual attraction to him. Hes my cousin and thats really it.

[Lovelife090994]

Not really. I only have one bed and i sleep naked all the time. We did nothing sexual

Perhaps but with family you never cuddle naked else it will be perceived as incest. I'd set my mother straight and say you are close to your family member. Just next time, keep on something when in bed with another whom is not your intimate partner.

[Zebb]

Perhaps but with family you never cuddle naked else it will be perceived as incest. I'd set my mother straight and say you are close to your family member. Just next time, keep on something when in bed with another whom is not your intimate partner.

I explained to her that were just close to each other like that and just dont be alarmed when she sees me and him or my other indian cousin cuddled.. Its to late to keep clothes on since were in bed already naked but there is no and will never be any sex with us. I wrapped the covers around his midsection so his dick and butt wont show.

[Lovelife090994]

I explained to her that were just close to each other like that and just dont be alarmed when she sees me and him or my other indian cousin cuddled.. Its to late to keep clothes on since were in bed already naked but there is no and will never be any sex with us. I wrapped the covers around his midsection so his dick and butt wont show.

Well, then I'm glad it worked out!

[Zebb]

Well, then I'm glad it worked out!

Thanks.