Advice on older guy

[mkenn172]

So two nights ago I went to our basement and caught my cousin's friend jerking off. I am a late bloomer and things have just started happening to my body. I told him that and he showed me how to masturbate. I did touch his foreskin because I have never see an uncircumcised dick. Now he will barely talk to me. I think he is freaked out because he is 25 and I am 14. Any suggestions on making this better? Also is it ok to try and do it again?

[kylem1229]

Try and do it again? I wouldnt recommend it. Look what happened last time, he wont even talk to you. Its hard to get past it, but just talk to him and apologize. Maybe he doesnt like people touching him in that area.

[mkenn172]

But he asked me to touch it.

[justin 13]

Dude I didn't know the guy is 25. I think is totally wrong messing up with older people, I like older guys but around 16 or even 18.

[Living For Love]

He feels guilty and ashamed for what happened, and he is afraid you're going to tell someone or you're going to see him in a different way. Tell him that you're completely fine with it, it was only once, you were curious and that you can still be his friend.

[teen.jpg]

I wouldnt say that's okay ...

[Second Chance]

I would definitely avoid doing stuff with older guys especially those over 18. The guys over 18 can get into a lot of trouble, and you don't want to put them in a bad position.

As for the guy, I agree with the others he is probably feeling really guilty and felt that he did something really inappropriate. He probably feels really bad for doing something while he was horny that he would never had done otherwise.

I would not do something like this again with someone that much older than you, but you can always go to the guy and let him know that you were glad he helped you with a puberty question and that you don't think badly of him. If you want to be his friend, then that's fine, but just don't be more than that because he's a lot older than you.

If the guy does not respond, then know there's nothing wrong with you. It was just an awkward situation especially since you caught him masturbating, and he's probably afraid he's not totally straight right now. Chances are the guy has issues he needs to resolve which is why you should give him space if he still ignores you.

[ksdnfkfr]

he is 25 and I am 14. Any suggestions

My suggestion is don't mess around with pedophiles.

[Xavier2]

Also is it ok to try and do it again?

No. Best to avoid situations like this, and the guy really should have known better.

[JamesSuperBoy]

So two nights ago I went to our basement and caught my cousin's friend jerking off. I am a late bloomer and things have just started happening to my body. I told him that and he showed me how to masturbate. I did touch his foreskin because I have never see an uncircumcised dick. Now he will barely talk to me. I think he is freaked out because he is 25 and I am 14. Any suggestions on making this better? Also is it ok to try and do it again?


you should know things happen and how to avoid them.


Also is it ok to try and do it again?

NO NO NO.

[remi]

My suggestion is don't mess around with pedophiles.

Couldn't say it better
regardless of whether it's consensual that's illegal

[Amazerful]

I wouldn't do it again if I were you, I think its just curiousity getting the best of you

[NikosamA98]

Try with someone your age.

I dont think he is a pedophile. He asked and the guy showed him. It could've been his brother. He feels ashamed now and that's a good sign that he thinks it was wrong. Talk to him, it won't happen again and that's it!

[Theekshana]

I dont think he is a pedophile.

not everyone who does stuff with guys/girls younger are that. things happen just like that sometimes.

[AbyssalLight7]

I don't know the specifics but I believe that's illegal for him since he's over 18 and you're a minor so there's a chance he's avoiding the situation from a looking back and realizing he could get in legal trouble standpoint, don't do it again with someone so far away in age.