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mkenn172
September 21st, 2013, 10:11 PM
so last night i went down in our basement to talk to my cousin and i walked in on my cousin's friend jerking off. i am kind of a late bloomer and haven't been able to cum. so he seemed to be a little freaked out so i told him that i didn't really know what to do when it comes to masturbating. he ended up kind of showing me what to do. i also had never seen an uncircumcised penis. he showed me the skin and i actually touched it. i kind of feel weird when he is around. any suggestions?
The Trendy Wolf
September 21st, 2013, 10:28 PM
I don't have much to say other than the fact that you should really feel awkward around him. It's perfectly understandable that you do, but I don't really have any suggestions sorry :(
ksdnfkfr
September 21st, 2013, 10:36 PM
It's just something you're going to have to live with as long as you feel that way.
mkenn172
September 21st, 2013, 10:37 PM
i think he is freaked out from the age difference. im 14 and he is 25.
mwahablablah634
September 21st, 2013, 11:29 PM
the age difference is very very very big. so he has a reason to freak out. just tell him you feel awkward and i really have no clue what to do honestly. he probably feels a lot worse since your only 14 and he is 24-26 you said
nklarke
September 22nd, 2013, 12:27 AM
But what's the question?
mkenn172
September 22nd, 2013, 07:25 AM
I still want to be friends with him. Any suggestions on helping stay friends? Is it ok to do something with him again?
justin 13
September 22nd, 2013, 07:30 AM
Dude if the guy is around your age I think is fine, but I wud avoid that situation if the guy is an adult.
mkenn172
September 22nd, 2013, 07:40 AM
He is 25.
Jamie_P
September 22nd, 2013, 08:57 AM
The age difference is definitely very big, so its understandable that you feel awkward around each other. However whats done is done now, and you cant really change that. Maybe you should talk to him about the experience because he probably feels a bit guilty as he is the much older one. Also, maybe you should just give him a little apology for walking in on him jerking off; and what happened wasn't really anyone's fault so you can clear the air and feel more comfortable around each other again.
randomme
September 22nd, 2013, 09:04 AM
I think if you are a year or two apart it is ok but with such a large age difference does seem a little odd
McAK101
September 22nd, 2013, 10:07 AM
The age difference is defiantly a large gap, and it's understandable that you would feel a little awkward walking in on somebody that much older than you. But it didn't seem, by they way that you described it, that he was mad about it. He didn't seem to mind. He even explained it to you, which I see as really trustful on his part. You could, maybe, apologize to him for walking in on him, but on the same token, thank him for explaining it to you.
sqishy
September 22nd, 2013, 12:17 PM
This might sound ironic, but saying that it's a bit awkward to be around him to him might diffuse the tension. I'm sure he'll understand.
MyNameIs.
September 22nd, 2013, 12:37 PM
so last night i went down in our basement to talk to my cousin and i walked in on my cousin's friend jerking off. i am kind of a late bloomer and haven't been able to cum. so he seemed to be a little freaked out so i told him that i didn't really know what to do when it comes to masturbating. he ended up kind of showing me what to do. i also had never seen an uncircumcised penis. he showed me the skin and i actually touched it. i kind of feel weird when he is around. any suggestions?
You shouldn't feel weird around him :p he gave u permission to touch it so... It's all ok! Just don't feel weird around him, it's just curiousity!
marc_not_mark
September 22nd, 2013, 01:17 PM
He would have every reason to feel awkward. Not only is he much older than you but technically he is an adult and you're a minor so what happened is technically against the law. It probably didn't seem like a big deal when he was horny and not thinking right but afterwards he knew it was wrong to do even if you were okay with it. But if you want to be friends with him still as you spend time together things will feel less weird eventually. Just be careful about anything sexual coming up anymore even just in conversation. It could be a big problem for him even if you don't think it is.
Throwaway24
October 28th, 2013, 05:50 AM
Talk to him about it. U probably want to do more and need to get it out of ur system
DeletedAccount123
November 5th, 2013, 04:25 PM
Did you have any idea he was into guys? Or was it just more of a puberty lesson type vibe?
Do you look old or young for your age? Maybe he thought you were older....
male_greece
February 25th, 2014, 03:18 PM
just go w/ it
Harley Quinn
February 25th, 2014, 05:50 PM
Don't bump old threads. :locked:
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