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Meganium
September 21st, 2013, 09:37 PM
I'm noticing more and more that I appear to be somewhat attracted to my own gender. I've always been primarily attracted to girls, especially as far as relationships go, but as time passes, I start to find other guys somewhat attractive. I'm not stressing over this, but I don't want this to be long-term. Not that I have a terrible problem with it, it's just that since I'm in an all-boys school, with a most ignorant cluster of homophobes, I don't want any social issues to arise. Any advice or comments?
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September 21st, 2013, 09:42 PM
Welcome to the Dark side :)
All joking aside, you really shouldnt care about the homophobes. They don't even need to know if that's the way you'd want to handle it. Just be yourself.
ksdnfkfr
September 21st, 2013, 10:26 PM
I'll bet several of those homophobes in your all boys school find boys attractive too. Just as you don't know which ones they are, there's no reason for anyone to know about you.
justin 13
September 22nd, 2013, 07:38 AM
My advise be careful in your school showing your interest 4 boys..Im gay in the closet my school is catholic and I'm surrounded by jerks all the times talking down about faggots and stuff.
Tze-
September 22nd, 2013, 09:21 PM
Well you shouldn't suppress feelings like these or they might cause more confusion later, but it wouldn't be hard to keep quiet about it. No need to tell everyone that you're curious.
Hermes96
September 23rd, 2013, 05:42 AM
Don't rush to tell every one and even if you do and the other kids don't like it its not really their business
pjones
September 29th, 2013, 01:06 PM
i'm pretty sure it's just a phase for me but i'm really attracted recently to my best friend and always get hard when we change clothes together or shower after the beach. he hasn't said anything good or bad about it but he makes sure he can see me when we do change. we've experimented before and jerk off together sometimes. maybe he wants to do more now? I don't know but i'd be willing to try things again with him.
riverboy
September 29th, 2013, 01:41 PM
Just becareful what you say or ask. You don't want to say the wrong thing to the wrong person. Listen to people say when they are in small group.
sqishy
September 29th, 2013, 02:06 PM
Probably best to not mention anything to these homophobes. It's your choice if you want to mention it or not. Mentioning it to people you can trust is a start.
Seth Green
September 29th, 2013, 04:15 PM
Don't let the fact that there are homophobes around suppress your sexuality.
Thanatos
September 29th, 2013, 11:41 PM
May be a phase, may not. Mine turned out not to be. As someone who went to an All Boys School, don't worry too much about it. I always played it off as joking around because for some reason people in an all boys school find that hilarious. "Suck my dick" "Alright lets go." "...XD"
Twilly F. Sniper
September 30th, 2013, 04:15 AM
Mate, welcome to the dark side. We got cookies, and urine for the "holy" ones.
steellord321
September 30th, 2013, 05:01 AM
You don't have to tell them and school won't last forever. Since you're still into girls, you should be ok socially, if they do find out. But if you really don't want them to, just don't get caught staring at guys all the time. That's a dead giveaway.
Starsong
September 30th, 2013, 05:11 AM
...and I'm surrounded by jerks all the times talking down about faggots and stuff.
I know you're banned but still. Referring to other gay people as faggots, considering you are gay, is pretty stupid IMO. (So this can be a message to random people that see this.)
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