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Bilbo Baggins
September 21st, 2013, 07:56 PM
So... they are having a dance at my school, and I really want to ask my best friend, who is a girl, and I've briefly mentioned the dance, but apparently she zoned out during class when that was announced, so... She still hast to reply to my email telling her about what happened when the girls got the sheet. Im just honestly terrified that it will wreck our relationship. Help. Otherwise I will use Sting, which I might've stolen from Frodo.

Meganium
September 21st, 2013, 09:20 PM
"Terrified that it will wrec--"

It's a dance, my guy. It's not going to screw up anything if you're just good friends. It's just something for fun. It's not like you're proposing to her or something. Just go on.

Saint of Sinners
September 21st, 2013, 10:04 PM
Why would it wreck your releationship? It's merely a dance.

WeAreOneRepublic
September 22nd, 2013, 02:36 AM
It will only chose to ruin the relationship if you make it. If it is casual then it should all be good. Play it cool xD

Miri
September 22nd, 2013, 01:42 PM
You could just suggest going together casually, or offering to pick her up if she's interested. Or, you could go separately, and if you're friends, it should be super easy just to hang out once you're there.

I highly doubt it will affect your relationship at all, and if it does, it will probably just improve it. It's just a dance, no biggie!

Stay confident :)

teen.jpg
September 22nd, 2013, 05:09 PM
She's your best friend, pretty sure she's not going to say no.

Cygnus
September 22nd, 2013, 05:26 PM
Okay, think. How can just going to a dance ruin everything? Unless you are the worst person on earth at dancing and get absolutely wasted you shouldn't have much to worry about. Just go up to her and ask her, a dating and going to a dance are two very different things. I don't see what is so hard about it, in Colombia on a party you just go up to a girl and say, "hey, wanna dance?" and she replies, if she says no you ask the next one.

TheStyleGuy
September 29th, 2013, 11:27 AM
So you wanna invite a girl to a dance, what you wanna do is bring up the subject of the dance and be like are you going to it and if she says no well be like well i wasnt planning on it but i think it would be cool to go with you, and if she says she is going ask if she has any plans to go with someone and if she just says her "girl" friends be like well i think itd be fun if you went with me but make sure to sound flirtly when asking cause if you make this seem like any other chat she will think its just as friends so make sure you get the point across that you wanna do it as more than friends cause what i see alot people doing as a mistake is inviting there friends to things as a date btu never really mentioning its a date and then being disapointed.

Bilbo Baggins
October 16th, 2013, 09:03 PM
And the dance flyers apparently were passed out an hour before the thing. Fucking new prinicpal