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kylem
September 21st, 2013, 10:52 AM
There's this girl at my school that kinda keeps stalking me and its kind of creepy. Her friends told me that she really likes me and wants to hang with me. the thing is I'm not that into her. I mean she's kinda cute but sorta weird to, just not someone I would probably date. My friends keep telling me to just go or it and see but I don't want to send her like mixed signals. I don't know what to do??? Looking for ideas here if anyone can help??

Mynick
September 21st, 2013, 10:57 AM
Tell her that you dont like her. Tell her to back off, dont give her fake hopes. Explain her everything crystal clean.

Luminous
September 21st, 2013, 11:07 AM
Just tell her she's creeping you out and she needs to back off.

Croconaw
September 21st, 2013, 11:43 AM
The worst thing you can do is lead her on. Just tell her you're not interested.

Cygnus
September 21st, 2013, 11:50 AM
As other people have said, you either go for it or you tell her you are not interested, there is no middle ground.

Living For Love
September 21st, 2013, 12:08 PM
Tell her that you just want to be friends, and nothing more.

Saint of Sinners
September 21st, 2013, 12:55 PM
Just tell her outright how you feel.

Miri
September 22nd, 2013, 03:00 PM
Don't lead her on, but instead maybe offer to be friends, and make it clear that you mean JUST friends.

teen.jpg
September 22nd, 2013, 03:46 PM
Tell her your not interested.

The only problem is that most of us would give different advice if this situation was reversed.

dsi411
September 22nd, 2013, 10:01 PM
Stalking how?

Running420
September 23rd, 2013, 03:43 PM
Dude, a hole is a hole, and a penis can be washed.

And who knows, maby it aint that bad? :)

sqishy
September 23rd, 2013, 04:44 PM
Draw the line sooner rather than later. If you're not interested in her as much as she is in you, then make it known to her. Do it nicely, it won't be easy for her :)

Cece14
September 24th, 2013, 03:47 PM
I had the same problem with this guy, I told him to back off, and it seemed to work, but, he is still a little touchy *Shiver*

kylem1229
September 24th, 2013, 03:54 PM
Tell her you arent interested. If you want to remain friends, thats fine. Just have her back off a little, and that you are currently not interested at this time.


(Ill take her if you dont want her... :) )

Baby-Kitten
September 27th, 2013, 08:36 PM
Tell her you think of her as a friend don't be harsh

StoppingTime
September 27th, 2013, 08:44 PM
I agree with everyone above, but I'd like to clarify something. Having a girl take a larger interest in you then you're comfortable isn't them "stalking" you - that is something that is much more serious and calls for legal action. There's a difference.

Melodic
September 28th, 2013, 07:53 AM
Has she came to your house, followed you home, watched you sleep, or she may have a collection of cats? If no, she's not stalking.

She has an interest in you and she might seem a little obsessive with it, but if I was you I would go for it. If things don't work out and she is as creepy as she seems, then you might want to break up and move on. But don't doubt her just because she is interested.