Death Love Letter?

[Extreme586]

This is all theoretical so:

If you were going to commit suicide. Would you write a letter confessing your love to someone you care about knowing the feelings aren't mutual and they are straight?

[Saint of Sinners]

Probably not. Would be awkward for the other party.

[Abyssal Echo]

You can if you want. I wouldn't but, that's me.

[kye.]

This is all theoretical so:

If you were going to commit suicide. Would you write a letter confessing your love to someone you care about knowing the feelings aren't mutual and they are straight?

you better not be thinking in doing this...if you're thinking about that then PM me ASAP! anyway...to answer your question, yes I would. I've done it before actually, but I regretted it and I'm glad I did.

[Bazinga]

If the reason you were going to commit was because of that then no because it could make them feel really guilty or that they're to blame. But if you just wanted to put it out there then why not?

[Starsong]

Depends on if I felt like making that person feel miserable and awkward.

[llwoahll]

Hella ya if you were going to die i wouodmwant everyone to know everything snd get everything off my chest

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Depends on how much I loved them. (not if they are the reason either)

[steellord321]

Why are you even thinking of this? This is nothing to do yourself in over and if you did that they are gonna think (no matter what u say) that you killed yourself because of your crush on them.

[Luminous]

Yes, I'm in that situation now, I've loved her for more than a year now and she's straight and doesn't know I like her. I'm not doing anything drastic over it, but if I were to kill myself I would write her a letter.

[Josh from SoCal]

Suicide is not a solution. Attempting suicide is not a solution. Trust me on this one.

And NO, writing a letter to someone specific saying they are the reason you did anything to harm yourself is a horrible idea. Assuming you were so distraught over someone and took that very bad path, then would you want that person to live with that kind of guilt for the rest of their life?

[mwahablablah634]

I would NEVER ever ever. If you did that person would feel terrible i mean terrible. they would think its their fault and if your thinking about committing suicide don't do it! Trust me life gets better.

[Meganium]

This is all theoretical so:

If you were going to commit suicide. Would you write a letter confessing your love to someone you care about knowing the feelings aren't mutual and they are straight?

Well, I'm not gay, but no, I wouldn't do that. I don't want a person to know that they were my final thought in life. I imagine that it would make them feel guilty/depressed beyond belief.

[Syvelocin]

Nah, I'd do it in person. Because then you'd see their reaction, and then what if they were into you despite your knowledge of them being straight? Then you killed yourself before knowing for sure whether it could ever work or not. Hopeful thinking, but I'm a believer in the "no one is 100% straight or gay" thing.

It depends on how close the person is to me, because I've confessed my feelings for a straight girl who is my best friend in the universe and one bisexual with a large tendency toward men who is now my girlfriend of three years. If it was just a huge crush but on a not-so-close friend, there isn't enough gain for telling them you like them.

[Elysium]

No. I wouldn't be so selfish as to let someone live with that, regardless of their gender. It'd be selfish enough as it is to commit suicide.

[teen.jpg]

No. It would put that person in a bad place, and make them feel guilty for something completely not their fault.

[Extreme586]

Well I wrote one to see what it would feel like. I'm not going to kill myself but I wrote all the letters and the last one, the one meant for the guy I liked felt so good. Reading some of your comments I would never let that get into his hands because I wouldn't want him to feel any guilt. The letter I wrote for him was based around making him know how important he is and how he kept me going for so long. Even going back to some of our experiences that we shared that made me happy beyond belief.

This was all theoretical and I knew deep down I would never do it, but it feels like I'm edging closer and closer. I tore up the letters and through them away. I just wish I could tell him everything and more and admit to him how I feel. He's not just some crush, he's everything and I know I won't find another person like him. Regardless of how this all turns out (which I have a pretty good idea of how it will), there is still a point in me living so I don't plan on committing suicide. I was just overwhelmed for the last couple of days.

[Castle of Glass]

eehhhh.... maybe. it depends on a couple things. like were there other reasons for the suicide. if that person was the only reason, then no. but if not, and you could explain that it wasn't the only reason, then maybe.

[gaboflr]

I'll do it being alive so I don't have to think in the wht if? when im killling myself.

[Lovelife090994]

Excuse me, but, what the hell is wrong with you! Theoretical or not, you never commit suicide and tell a crush you killed yourself because you liked them. That would kill them or make them suicidal with guilt! Bad idea! Never do this!
I would Never do this! Suicide is bad.

If you are to be committing suicide please contact me ASAP and we can talk about, pray about it, whatever works. Please I hope this is a joke query to inquire on a fallacy!

[steellord321]

I'll do it being alive so I don't have to think in the wht if? when im killling myself.

Yeah this is exactly right, falling in love being in a way the point of life, don't save it for such a bad ending. Even framing your letter that way, he would think "i could've done more." No your not gonna win the straight guy, but telling someone you appreciate em is never a bad thing either.

[Tarannosaurus]

No, if I cared about them I wouldn't do that! What if they thought them not returning those feelings was the reason for me committing suicide?

[Extreme586]

Seeing all your opinions, I wouldn't do it. But I did try it out and I did write the letters to see what it would feel like before tearing them up. When I read it, some parts were a bit goofy or even a bit strange, I guess it's hard to some up so much of what used to be my life (which revolved around him) into a few pages.

Although I must say, when I reread it, I thought I did a damn good job. For those of you who are just astounded as to why I would do something like that, it's because what is in the letter is love. Not just some cry baby bullshit about how I wish it could have been different. I explained to him how I was feeling and why I did it. Ya sure there would be some guilt, which is the reason I would never send it. But there was so much more in that letter that I wrote than just an explanation. It was also centered around the idea that he kept me going for so long and made me feel so good about myself in the smallest things he did for me freshman year.

Before him I had never been intentionally touched and felt like someone cared about me like that. Especially not someone I liked. I told him about all the little things and reminded him what he did to make me smile or feel good. It was about finally getting to let myself be FREE of the lies and stories I made up to create this fake image of myself that EVERYONE else saw. It was about being truthful and telling one person in this whole universe that I was gay, actually admitting it and telling them I loved them and was glad to have been apart of their life. Not only that but I did a damn good job of letting them know that they weren't the reason I killed myself. It felt so good to write, I can't even explain it.

[CharlieHorse]

No I wouldn't because it would be awkward if not saddening to the other person.
I also don't have anyone I would write a love letter to.
I would write to my family though.
Actually, I wouldn't kill myself in the first place.

[Hermes96]

No as it would probably make that person feel really guilty and make them feel like it was there fault

[DepartInSecret]

I wouldn't. If someone killed themselves and then left a letter confessing their love for me I would feel down and feel like it is my fault, which is something that I don't want to put upon anyone else..

[Hypers]

i wouldnt cause that'll hurt so bad.

[AbyssalLight7]

No, they'd blame themselves partly for the death when it wasn't there fault.