Aus10
September 20th, 2013, 10:40 PM
Hey Guys/Gals,
Well, me and my boyfriend (surprising, I'm bi!), just recently broke up. I'm really confused about what the hell his reasoning was and I was wondering if any of y'all could give me your opinion on what you would do or something like that.
The Story
Well, a few months ago me and him, started dating. Things got rough and we didn't really have enough time to remain a couple, thus we broke up. Well, recently a few months ago we got back together and well it started really quick and it ended even faster. During this probably month we were together we ended up having sex and stuff like that. Most of these kinds of things were his idea and such. Well, about a week ago we got together and I snuck him in my house. (Please note; I hate breaking my parents trust and stuff for these types of things.) Well, that night I'm sure you can guess what happened. Of course we had sex and that kind of thing. I've been sitting with him and his friends at lunch and stuff. Well, we started texting and things have been going down hill as he says. Well, he broke up with me and the reason he gave me was "I can't deal with this stress and awkwardness anymore".
I find this completely irrational one, becuase he's stressing over what. He's the one that had all of the ideas to sneak out to see him and things. Awkwardness? Nobody knew that me and him were going out. Why would it be awkward?
Well, he came up to me today and was like 'I wish that we could've worked things out', as if he actually gave it a try. It was a huge joke to me and it just really ran my day into the ground. At any rate, I want to know what you guys think about it? I mean am I over thinking this and that kind of thing? What would you do? I mean I still love him... :what:
Thanks!
Well, me and my boyfriend (surprising, I'm bi!), just recently broke up. I'm really confused about what the hell his reasoning was and I was wondering if any of y'all could give me your opinion on what you would do or something like that.
The Story
Well, a few months ago me and him, started dating. Things got rough and we didn't really have enough time to remain a couple, thus we broke up. Well, recently a few months ago we got back together and well it started really quick and it ended even faster. During this probably month we were together we ended up having sex and stuff like that. Most of these kinds of things were his idea and such. Well, about a week ago we got together and I snuck him in my house. (Please note; I hate breaking my parents trust and stuff for these types of things.) Well, that night I'm sure you can guess what happened. Of course we had sex and that kind of thing. I've been sitting with him and his friends at lunch and stuff. Well, we started texting and things have been going down hill as he says. Well, he broke up with me and the reason he gave me was "I can't deal with this stress and awkwardness anymore".
I find this completely irrational one, becuase he's stressing over what. He's the one that had all of the ideas to sneak out to see him and things. Awkwardness? Nobody knew that me and him were going out. Why would it be awkward?
Well, he came up to me today and was like 'I wish that we could've worked things out', as if he actually gave it a try. It was a huge joke to me and it just really ran my day into the ground. At any rate, I want to know what you guys think about it? I mean am I over thinking this and that kind of thing? What would you do? I mean I still love him... :what:
Thanks!