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Gravityjoe
September 19th, 2013, 10:23 PM
Ok. I'm a 16 year old guy, an there's this girl I really like. We've been talking (mostly over snapchat) but I have talked to her maybe 5 times at school. We started talking like 3 weeks ago, and I think it's pretty clear she likes me. However, she sits behind me I one of my classes, and I never talk to her because I never know what to say. We've known eachother fr way too long for me to ask basic questions, so I just don't know what to say or how go start off the conversation. She probably thinks I'm a ***** because I don't talk to her. What should I do?

WeAreOneRepublic
September 20th, 2013, 02:24 AM
even though you said you can't ask basic questions you need them in order to make better questions. Asking about her hobbies or favourite music/band will allow you to make better questions such as "Have you seen -insert name-'s new song?" Try to stick away from topics which can lead to a debate as that is not good and learning how to small talk, being funny, etc will help as well. All the best mate :)

Saint of Sinners
September 20th, 2013, 03:56 AM
Seriously, just talk about anything that she will be interested in. you said you already asked all the basic stuff, so talk to her about your common interests. But like Haydy said, avoid controversial topics (religion, money, race, etc). Best of luck!

BookSmart
September 20th, 2013, 06:37 PM
You could always just start with a simple hi. There's a guy I like who's in one of my classes at school. Both of us are semi awkward around each other, but I think we both know that we like each other. Our conversations usually start with a hi and a smile and then continue on from there. You could ask things like "how was your weekend" or "are you doing anything fun this weekend". As long as you don't over think, I'm sure a conversation will just naturally occur.

Tarannosaurus
September 21st, 2013, 05:26 PM
Find simple ways to talk more. If you're uncomfortable, start small. Even like just holding the door for her, smiling, then a "thanks" "no problem" is a start. Also you could comment on the class occasionally, by saying things like "God that was so boring" or " I can't believe she's giving us another test". Also when a teacher says something annoying you could smile and role your eyes at her, that way you're including her. Gradually starting to talk to her will lead up to a proper conversation.

Luminous
September 21st, 2013, 05:28 PM
Ask her about her life: her friends, pets, family. Let her know she can confide in you and trust you.