Is there something im not seeing?

[Waleedbt]

Hello everyone, this is my very first post here and i thought i would love to try and ask what ive been curious off for a while now.
So i met thia girl in class, i started the conversation as i am pretty confident when it comes to meeting people i want to meet haha.

After few months , weve started to get close for like 4 months now.. Probably more , but not by much. Ive been into her dorm room so many times, had dinner there few times, did nothing, see im a shy dude, i never push myself to a girl, i wait for them since i just dont force anything like that to anyone. I asked to hang out once, she said sure but blew me off, i said its okay. ( i asked her out before i actually went in her room ) .... One time i took her for a nice dinner, Very Nice! but still, i did nothing, and im completely fine tbh about it, its not like im asking for something, i dont give and expect something kind of guy, i knw its bad, but thats me. She texts me alot, like weird stuff " im hungry " kinda of texts, last time she called, we had a 40 mins converstaion.
Last time i was sitting in the cafateria and she sat next to me talking, i could see her expressions in her eyes and how she smiles in my face. We went on a break and she made me promise to take her out , but didnt happen since i was shy to bring it up. Last time i saw her, i asked her out for the movies and ended up watching a movie in one of our friends apt, i didnt really enjoy it, not i expected that to happen, she kept sending ":(" to me to come and alot of " pleases " so i went along with it.
I dont know what my situation here , but its weird! We stay together alone for over 4 or 5 hours sometimes in her room.
Question is... Am i being used to comfort? Is she even interested?
You can ask me questions, i didnt fill alot here, but honeslty, im very confused about our relationship.. Friendzone? Haha i mean i hte myself because i kinda chase a person, but im dropping it low now, and hope i stay that way sice im seeing nothing but wasting time out of this.

Edit: im 18 , im a virgin, i only kissed a girl once and it was forced on me by the girl.

[Blood]

Hello everyone, this is my very first post here and i thought i would love to try and ask what ive been curious off for a while now.
So i met thia girl in class, i started the conversation as i am pretty confident when it comes to meeting people i want to meet haha.

After few months , weve started to get close for like 4 months now.. Probably more , but not by much. Ive been into her dorm room so many times, had dinner there few times, did nothing, see im a shy dude, i never push myself to a girl, i wait for them since i just dont force anything like that to anyone. I asked to hang out once, she said sure but blew me off, i said its okay. ( i asked her out before i actually went in her room ) .... One time i took her for a nice dinner, Very Nice! but still, i did nothing, and im completely fine tbh about it, its not like im asking for something, i dont give and expect something kind of guy, i knw its bad, but thats me. She texts me alot, like weird stuff " im hungry " kinda of texts, last time she called, we had a 40 mins converstaion.
Last time i was sitting in the cafateria and she sat next to me talking, i could see her expressions in her eyes and how she smiles in my face. We went on a break and she made me promise to take her out , but didnt happen since i was shy to bring it up. Last time i saw her, i asked her out for the movies and ended up watching a movie in one of our friends apt, i didnt really enjoy it, not i expected that to happen, she kept sending ":(" to me to come and alot of " pleases " so i went along with it.
I dont know what my situation here , but its weird! We stay together alone for over 4 or 5 hours sometimes in her room.
Question is... Am i being used to comfort? Is she even interested?
You can ask me questions, i didnt fill alot here, but honeslty, im very confused about our relationship.. Friendzone? Haha i mean i hte myself because i kinda chase a person, but im dropping it low now, and hope i stay that way sice im seeing nothing but wasting time out of this.

Edit: im 18 , im a virgin, i only kissed a girl once and it was forced on me by the girl.


Well first I'd like to point out that there's nothing wrong with being 18 and a virgin, its a personal choice and you shouldn't feel bad about it no matter what situation you're in. :)

Being a female, I would say she's interested in you. It's your job to find out how exactly, and what your relationship is, and if you both want it to evolve into something more. I know you say you're not the type of guy to give something and expect something in return, but asking her to answer about if she wants to be together or not really isn't expecting anything, it's just clarifying the situation. Try taking her out to dinner again and talking about if she's interested in furthering your relationship.

[Waleedbt]

Well first I'd like to point out that there's nothing wrong with being 18 and a virgin, its a personal choice and you shouldn't feel bad about it no matter what situation you're in. :)

Being a female, I would say she's interested in you. It's your job to find out how exactly, and what your relationship is, and if you both want it to evolve into something more. I know you say you're not the type of guy to give something and expect something in return, but asking her to answer about if she wants to be together or not really isn't expecting anything, it's just clarifying the situation. Try taking her out to dinner again and talking about if she's interested in furthering your relationship.


First, thank you for the fast response :)
I honestly have no problem being a virgin haha , im a middle eastern so thats my culture to stay one , well for dudes its fine if they just try and get a girl... which ends up being a prostitute anyway or doing it from the rear. ( thats one of my worst fear to doing it on those conditions ;p ) , and im just generally scared of sex since ive seen how people make girls pregnant even with condoms.. so No to me xD haha.

For the 2nd Paragraph: Really? thats what im seeing too , but im trying to take her out again , its just that i say " lets hang out " and well she says sure and lets do it and last time she said " lets do it today instead of tomorow" , i mean i saw that she was excited but that day something in college volunteering came up and she had to do it, but i also didnt want it the same day so was good day anyway, so our plan was the day after, i texted her ... no avail until Edit:4pm, appearently she was sleeping , and then tells me to come over and watch a movie, honestly i didnt bring up our plans so i was just saying hello, and that ended up her begging me to come over and when i did she was like " no , im at my friends apt ( which is a guy ) " i said nevermind " you guys have fun" and was about to leave , and she started begging , i just got this feeling that she really wanted me there. I said okay and went, but didnt enjoy any second of it.. wasted time of my life while i could go to the movies and have dinner alone ( which would have beeen waaay better tbh) (im a lonely kinda of guy and love it also haha )

So anyway, my point is , whenever i say i want to hang out with her, she doesnt think of it as a date or anything.. and that dinner we had.. well i had to ask so many times until i was able to make her be up to it, and she LOVED IT! she was texting me that night non stop on how fun it was and that she wanted to do it again. I just dont know what to do anymore tbh, im trying to do this but shes just not that available or just forgets ( and i know no one forgets things like that )

[Saint of Sinners]

Well, don't take my word for it, check with others first, but I think you should be a little more outright with her. Ask her out and make clear its a date. Then see what she does.

[Living For Love]

She's probably waiting for you to make the next move, but as you have already invited her and she keeps "avoiding" it, I honestly don't know what that can be. You need to insist on her, be with her more often. I know those type of girls who text you those weird things like "I'm hungry", you just need to get into those games and start conversations from there, so she feels that she has someone who understands her and whom she can count with.

[Waleedbt]

She's probably waiting for you to make the next move, but as you have already invited her and she keeps "avoiding" it, I honestly don't know what that can be. You need to insist on her, be with her more often. I know those type of girls who text you those weird things like "I'm hungry", you just need to get into those games and start conversations from there, so she feels that she has someone who understands her and whom she can count with.

Im so close that people think were together..and when they know im not.. well ive been called names such as being a " sheep " as in someone who chases a girl everywhere which honestly isn't true since she wants me with her all the time.
I dont know how to play that game haha, i really want to know sometimes.. i just have a hard time replying , i would just say " eat...." lol