sexual feelings

[Mikes95]

So I have a friend that asked me to explore his sexual feelings with him . Ive known him since he was 13 and i know he is bi. He just turned 17 and i just turned 18. dont get my wrong hes cute and everything. But hes like my little brother. I talked to him about it and he wants to do it all. Im bi but still in the closet. I dont know how he figured out i was bi. Ive never done anything with a guy. Ive had sex with my past girlfriends and everything. I dont know what to say. Please help me.

[ska8er]

do u want to help him explore his sexual feelings? ask him y does he think u want to do anything and c what he says. dont out urself.

[Mikes95]

I think he asked me as kind of an older brother figure . I told him i was bi about 30 min ago. Still have yet to give him a straight answer. I havent done anything with a guy. But i wouldnt nind giving it a go.

[ska8er]

if ur comfortable with it then experiment. u r close to him but i would set limits on doing it all since u r questioning it here.

[Saint of Sinners]

If you are ok with it, go ahead. But if you are uncomfortable just say no.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[sdude]

Does anyone else notice the "Kryptonite" moderator seems a little pushy on where she thinks stuff belongs??? Topics like this are often by guys that are looking for help out there and don't need to be shoved off by the moderator....perhaps she should be moderating "girls" puberty stuff instead of guys...just sayin...
NOW to the subject at hand...

It seems like you are just as curious as he is, and it's entirely up to you...If you are thinking he is too young for you, "leagally" he is. You are an adult at 18, while he is technically a minor at 17, so let your conscience be your guide...

[Living For Love]

Does anyone else notice the "Kryptonite" moderator seems a little pushy on where she thinks stuff belongs??? Topics like this are often by guys that are looking for help out there and don't need to be shoved off by the moderator....perhaps she should be moderating "girls" puberty stuff instead of guys...just sayin...
NOW to the subject at hand...

It seems like you are just as curious as he is, and it's entirely up to you...If you are thinking he is too young for you, "leagally" he is. You are an adult at 18, while he is technically a minor at 17, so let your conscience be your guide...


You realise that when moderators move threads they are in a certain way helping the person who started them. They get better responses if the thread is well placed. New people around here might not know where to put threads, that's why moderators move them, to make sure everything runs smoothly and the forum keeps organised.


So I have a friend that asked me to explore his sexual feelings with him . Ive known him since he was 13 and i know he is bi. He just turned 17 and i just turned 18. dont get my wrong hes cute and everything. But hes like my little brother. I talked to him about it and he wants to do it all. Im bi but still in the closet. I dont know how he figured out i was bi. Ive never done anything with a guy. Ive had sex with my past girlfriends and everything. I dont know what to say. Please help me.


Only do it if you feel comfortable, but he seems to trust you a lot, so I guess you can come out to him.

[gaboflr]

He's your mate so if you're comfortable and feel atracted to him in some sort of way he's the best person to have your first expierence just because the confidence you have and you know you can trust in him

[Cece14]

I agree with Gaberial

[Hermes96]

only do something if your a 100% sure that you want to do it don't rush into anything you don't want to do

[sqishy]

If you are not comfortable with going along with what he has in mind, then don't do it. But if you want to give it a go, then dive in :).

[steellord321]

Does anyone else notice the "Kryptonite" moderator seems a little pushy on where she thinks stuff belongs??? Topics like this are often by guys that are looking for help out there and don't need to be shoved off by the moderator....perhaps she should be moderating "girls" puberty stuff instead of guys...just sayin...
NOW to the subject at hand...

It seems like you are just as curious as he is, and it's entirely up to you...If you are thinking he is too young for you, "leagally" he is. You are an adult at 18, while he is technically a minor at 17, so let your conscience be your guide...

Nah age of consent is diff in every state and i'm pretty sure 18 with 17 is not illegal, but OP you should at least look it up first.

If you don't wanna do it for any reason, then don't. Being "just friends" is a valid excuse. But we can't decide for ya.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

If you want to, go ahead.

[nklarke]

He's your mate so if you're comfortable and feel atracted to him in some sort of way he's the best person to have your first expierence just because the confidence you have and you know you can trust in him

Exactamente!
That's it what I think. Are you attracted to him? That the question here because you say you are bi (but never been with guys, just girls.....).

[Gifford]

So I have a friend that asked me to explore his sexual feelings with him . Ive known him since he was 13 and i know he is bi. He just turned 17 and i just turned 18. dont get my wrong hes cute and everything. But hes like my little brother. I talked to him about it and he wants to do it all. Im bi but still in the closet. I dont know how he figured out i was bi. Ive never done anything with a guy. Ive had sex with my past girlfriends and everything. I dont know what to say. Please help me.

Sounds like you couldn't be better friends, and there must be trust there you can count on. In my opinion, since you're both bi and as such you'll never know much about what it is to be bi without a sexual experience. You said he was cute, I think you're using the "he's like a little brother" thing as an excuse not to help each other by having sex together. It's a beautiful experience, and you're both at a good age to enjoy it with maturity. He's entirely willing and you seem to be dragging your feet. Do you think there's another guy out there that would be better to fool around with?

So many str8 guys have done more with a buddy than you have. How can you be bi if you won't share the experience with your friend. It's about helping each other, right?

[Elysium]

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