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Jaster
September 18th, 2013, 01:38 PM
Prepare for a long post here.

So, about a month or two ago, I went with my dad to help a family friend to her house down lower in the state that she moved out of about a year or two ago and rented to a friend. We went there to help move the last of the stuff in the garage out, and there was a lot so we had her kids and grandkids come help. Me, my dad, the old family friend who used to live in that house before her husband died, and one of the grandkids stayed in this house and slept on the floor while my friends parents and sister stayed at one of their friends houses and his brother slept over another friends house.

After doing a lot of work (And luckily they still had a person coming to clean the pool, so we got to swim a lot and not die in the heat. Yay), we decided the rooms we were sleeping in. My friends grandma was sleeping in the old master bedroom across the house, my dad slept in a room on the other side of the house from her, while me and my friend slept in a room across from my dad. The grandma slept on a mattress, my dad slept on the floor with a blanket and pillow, while my friend slept in a sleeping bag and I slept on a mat with a blanket (That I kicked a hole in while I was sleeping Dx). Anyways, before we did that, we went out for dinner at a buffet. On the way back, the car started making weird noises and we decided to stop at the place where my friends sister and parents were staying since it was nearby.

We walked inside and stood there for a few minutes pretty much bored. Eventually after about maybe 10 - 20 minutes he had to go to the bathroom and said he would be right back, so he went upstairs and to the bathroom. I kept pacing and he opened the door, I looked up and he did the "Wait" gesture with his finger, then closed it again. I kept on pacing, and after about five minutes I thought "Whats taking him so long?", and around the same time he finally walked out of the bathroom and down the stairs, he acted casual but im very analytically and I saw a stain on his shorts, though I pretended to not see it. After that we went outside around the pool with they're pets and watched TV, having been there about one or two hours when we left.

After we got back to the house, we went into our rooms and setup what we were going to sleep on. Heres the part that got me thinking: In the middle of the night, I woke up and couldnt fall asleep, so I stared at the ceiling. When suddenly, my friend moves right above me, like checking if I was awake, then I quick closed my eyes and after a few seconds he moved. Where did he lay down? His head was right at my hand, I mean right infront of it. I moved my hand to touch his hair to see if he would back away, and he didnt.

I decided to suddenly sit up with my face resting on my hands, like as if I had a nightmare. A few seconds after, I heard a bang on the wall. I looked and he had moved as far away from me as he could, accidentally hitting his head on the wall. After that, I went back to sleep. I woke up and the LITERAL second I did, I felt him slap me and say "Really Kyle?", I assumed he did it because I always have had this problem of moaning in my sleep. He kept saying "Kyle?" because I turned over when he slapped me.

I thought it would be funny to suddenly turn and go "WHAT?!" as a prank, so I did and he laughed. First thing I noticed? A small wet spot on his sleeping bag, though I didnt bother saying anything. After that we worked when his family came back over, we finished up the work and went swimming again, then went back to his grandmas house to unload the stuff she wanted to keep, and we did pretty quick.

Then about a month ago from now, it was his grandmas birthday. We had a surprise birthday party at his house for her, and after everyone yelled surprise, me him and his friend Lucas stood away from most of the other people and talked. Eventually the topic of the trip came up and I said "And when I woke up, I felt at the exact same second you slap me and I quick turned over". Wyatt (My friend) and Lucas laughed, then I said "And also I woke up in the middle of the night because I had a nightmare, then BANG, I look over and you hit your head on the wall", then me and Lucas laughed. Wyatt said "You were awake then?" in sort of a panicked way, which made me suspicious but I didnt mention it.

Later on, we were watching a movie in his room. Diary Of A Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules was on Cartoon Network. Wyatt and Lucas were sitting on the floor while I found a way to lay down comfortably on the exercise equipment. Eventually Wyatt started to get bored and roll over Lucas while I watched, Lucas tried to push him off but he couldnt, so I got up and went "Cough, gaaaaay!" (The only people who know im bi are anyone who asks online and one friend who lives across the street), then I pulled him off (Strongest of the three, w00t), and Wyatt said "No believe me, you can ask Lucas, I do stupid stuff when im tired" in a VERY unconvincing way.

So thats the story. Now heres the quesiton...does he like me?!

Lost in the Echo
September 18th, 2013, 01:52 PM
Puberty For Boys :arrow: Relationships & Dating

To answer your question, his behavior does sound a bit weird, but I don't think he's really given off any strong signals to indicate that he likes you. I don't recommend you ask him about this, or confront him about this until you're fairly sure he likes you, because if you bring this up to him, and it turns out he doesn't actually have feelings for you, then it could make the friendship between the both of you awkward.
Wait until he tells you he likes you, or until you feel you have proof/evidence that he does.