musicjunkie1310
September 18th, 2013, 08:13 AM
Hello honeypies :)
I'm stuck in a situation over here. So let me start explaining from the very beginning.
I first talked to my best friend about... let's say, 7 months back? And that's cause he wanted to read my poetry. After a few days of casual talking, i dunno what happened but I blindly trusted him and I told him that I cut myself. After that, you know, he started helping me out with the depression and all. At that moment, I was in an internet relationship with someone in NZ. And then one day, my ex just stopped talking to me. And who was there to help me forget about him? My best friend. He made me laugh, we had stupid fights, poking each other's side :P
And then a month and a half back, I realised I started liking him. And without thinking, I just blabbered to him the next morning.
... turns out he liked me too....
And now, well we're doing nothing about it. I mean I want to be in a relationship with him, but I think talking to him about that would seem like forcing him and possibly, breaking our friendship.
I don't want to lose him as my best friend.
Should I talk to him or wait?
Should I make a move?
I'm stuck in a situation over here. So let me start explaining from the very beginning.
I first talked to my best friend about... let's say, 7 months back? And that's cause he wanted to read my poetry. After a few days of casual talking, i dunno what happened but I blindly trusted him and I told him that I cut myself. After that, you know, he started helping me out with the depression and all. At that moment, I was in an internet relationship with someone in NZ. And then one day, my ex just stopped talking to me. And who was there to help me forget about him? My best friend. He made me laugh, we had stupid fights, poking each other's side :P
And then a month and a half back, I realised I started liking him. And without thinking, I just blabbered to him the next morning.
... turns out he liked me too....
And now, well we're doing nothing about it. I mean I want to be in a relationship with him, but I think talking to him about that would seem like forcing him and possibly, breaking our friendship.
I don't want to lose him as my best friend.
Should I talk to him or wait?
Should I make a move?