View Full Version : First time messing around.. I messed up
Michelle685
September 18th, 2013, 08:06 AM
So my boyfriend ate me out for the first time last night. We were home alone and it just happened.. I feel like I did something wrong.. I moaned alot holding his head and even put my legs around his neck but as soon as I started to orgasm he backed off and I feel like I did something
SkootuGurl
September 18th, 2013, 09:02 AM
Perhaps you moaned loudly and he thought he'd done something that hurt you.
You really need to talk to him about it, the sooner the better
Sandra Main
September 18th, 2013, 09:04 AM
You did nothing wrong.
Ihaveagun
September 18th, 2013, 10:16 AM
That was indeed a strange reaction from your boyfriend. You did absolutely nothing wrong. As mentioned above, talk to him. Communication is key.
emily-candace
September 18th, 2013, 10:48 AM
is it the first time he had ever gone down on a girl, maybe he thought you were going to pee on him or something and he just had no idea.
stoneflowe96
September 18th, 2013, 04:04 PM
You did nothing wrong. But like the others said it is important that you talk to your boyfriend. Maybe he didn't know how to react because it was also his first time.
SarahK
September 18th, 2013, 05:37 PM
Sounds like he didn't know what to do. You didn't do anything wrong. :)
KellyNC
September 18th, 2013, 08:14 PM
Like other's have said communicate with him about it. Make sure he knows and understands what happened, obviously if you were moaning and orgasmed he was doing at least decent job. If there were things you didn't enjoy/like try skipping over them for now, you two sound like you're pretty new to this so it's good to keep his confidence up and keep feedback positive, let him know specifically what he was doing well and how it made you feel. Communication during sex can be important too, moaning is good but sometimes you've got to be verbal too, if you're in the act and he's doing something you really like let him know that too.
Luminous
September 18th, 2013, 08:17 PM
I don't think he knew what was supposed to happen, maybe he didn't know girls orgasm. You might have scared him! You should gather up the courage to talk to him about it.
Jennboh
September 18th, 2013, 10:52 PM
What everybody else said. At least you're bf licks ur pussy and is good at it! ur lucky! lol.
Sierra98
September 19th, 2013, 04:11 AM
Maybe he thought you were already finished. But like everyone else said, talk to him about it.
taurus97
September 19th, 2013, 01:13 PM
So my boyfriend ate me out for the first time last night. We were home alone and it just happened.. I feel like I did something wrong.. I moaned alot holding his head and even put my legs around his neck but as soon as I started to orgasm he backed off and I feel like I did something
You didn't do anything wrong except you didn't talk to him about it.Maybe it was his first time and he didn't know what to expect .You are lucky that he has gone down on you so give him some encouragement and talk to him about it.:yummy:
Elysium
September 19th, 2013, 05:45 PM
Communicate with him. Instead of spending your time worrying and agonizing, take action and get rid of your insecurities.
ElliEvens
September 20th, 2013, 10:37 AM
So, have you talked to him yet? How did it go? What did he say when you told him it was good and you were enjoying it? What did he tell you the reason was for stopping like that.
Sometimes I get curious what happens after someone posts something and maybe uses a piece of advice they heard? Did any of it help?
Sarah_Ward
September 20th, 2013, 06:20 PM
Awwww it sounds so beautiful that he was giving you such amazing feelings and I would definitely be moaning too coz I bet it feels sooo good... I don't think you did anything wrong so don't blame yourself, I guess he thought that you had climaxed and he had to stop or something, I would do like the other girls said, talk to him about it and tell him that you will let him know when to stop. :O)
Selliejoy
September 20th, 2013, 08:12 PM
It's normal just stalk to him I'm sure everything fine(:
Sierra98
September 22nd, 2013, 12:46 AM
It's normal just stalk to him I'm sure everything fine(:
You may want to stick to talking instead of stalking for now :P
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