This girl.

[Woryh]

There is this girl a really like at school.
She has a mix between light and dark color hair.
Very smart and very pretty.
I wouldn't say she was extremely popular but shes high up there.
Me... I am the kid who no one really likes. I have like 5 friends.
*sigh*
I am not sure why people just don't like me.
Maybe it's because I am different. I am different in many ways.
I play football, I play EnD (not many ppl know this), I larp,I am extremely smart with computers, I am a active member in the SCA (society of Creative Anachronism(biggest medieval reenactment group), and I fence.

I don't want to have a sexual relationship or anything just a boy friend/ girl frind relation ship.
I don't want to make it obvious that I like her she might feel......embarrassed by it.... how would I go from here? Should I tell her? (which btw I will not do :0)
Should I just sit idle off to the side? Help me!

[Ethan15]

Believe me when I say those are not the reasons you are 'unpopular'. Just talk to people and that gets you more friends, it may seem like they don't like you, but you don't know that until they say it. With the girl try and hang around with a group of her friends and get to know her first, then ask her out.

[Saint of Sinners]

I understand how you feel. Well, i wouldn't advise you to just tell her like that, might be too awkward. Maybe you can try to slowly move up the social ladder? They reasons that you gave that made you 'not liked' actually sound pretty cool to me. Surely that can't be the reason?

Be proactive. Go talk to people, and mingle around. Don't just sit idle off to the side, but don't rush things too. Try to make friends with her friends first. Good Luck!

[Lost in the Echo]

P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating
You'll get better replies there. :)

[Luminous]

I agree with what is said above, is that you're probably more popular than you think you are. You sound pretty cool to me. I mean, medieval reenactment group? That's one of the coolest extracurriculars ever!! (Though, this IS coming from a girl that is applying for internship at a living history 'museum' focused around the 1830s-40s)
Just open up, talk to some people, they'll probably think you're pretty cool, and in that way the girl will start to notice you. I *highly* doubt she will be embarrassed by you.

[gotstyle]

I wanna say just beat the shit out of the most popular kid lol ik this was no help but idk

[AidanMcCann]

You should get in good with her friends first and get them on your side to give her good opinions of you and boost your chances then start talking to her be confident an funny stand tall NEVER slouch speak clearly but not to loudly and take it at a moderate pace, once you are comfortable with her ask her and some of her friends if they would like to (go to the movies, beach, park, etc) and then move from there based on how she reacts to the question and while doing the activity.
Good luck bro!