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Brays123
September 16th, 2013, 11:53 PM
Ok so if you've seen my other post about this "older guy" in another thread area then you probably will know what I am talking about. Anyways, so this kid is in 8th grade and I'm in 7th and I have a huge crush on him and I'm just not sure how to bring up the topic to him, I have tried so many things like talking about his opinions on homophobes and he said he isn't one. But yea I think he may be a tad bit interested in me because he like smiles and waves at me every once and awhile but yes, basically if you other gay guys out there have dealt with this in a really good way please do answer me! Thanks! :D

Blood
September 17th, 2013, 02:31 PM
Ok so if you've seen my other post about this "older guy" in another thread area then you probably will know what I am talking about. Anyways, so this kid is in 8th grade and I'm in 7th and I have a huge crush on him and I'm just not sure how to bring up the topic to him, I have tried so many things like talking about his opinions on homophobes and he said he isn't one. But yea I think he may be a tad bit interested in me because he like smiles and waves at me every once and awhile but yes, basically if you other gay guys out there have dealt with this in a really good way please do answer me! Thanks! :D

Sorry, I'm not a gay guy. But I can tell you that if he said he isn't gay, you should just back off. His friendly gestures are most likely just that, friendly.

Thelizzerd
September 17th, 2013, 02:32 PM
i agree with blood.

kylem1229
September 17th, 2013, 03:32 PM
Smiles and waves are just friendly gestures, that doesnt mean anything. If he doesnt want to be gay, then he doesnt have to. You might just want to give up on this one and try another person. Because honestly, its probably not going to work.

justin 13
September 18th, 2013, 11:16 AM
Agree with Blood I have tons of str8 friendly friends LOL but they r not gay at all u can risk your friendship with him.

sqishy
September 18th, 2013, 01:45 PM
He might be very friendly, but if he's not gay, you can't really go anywhere with it.

Brays123
September 18th, 2013, 11:53 PM
Sorry, I'm not a gay guy. But I can tell you that if he said he isn't gay, you should just back off. His friendly gestures are most likely just that, friendly.

I was saying how to state the topic of if he is gay, bi, to him or just tell tail signs of him being so... But I do appreciate feedback, thanks for everybody's help so far! :lol: