Need some advice on something

[brokenskyline]

My post kinda involves subjects in a couple of different places, but I figure this is the best one. So very recently I've been realizing that I'm bi, which has been kinda hard for me to process, but on top of that there's this hot guy at my school who I've basically been crushing on since the day I met him two years ago (no kidding, it's pretty dang serious), however he's been dating a girl for about three months now (which I think only makes me want him more..). To make my dilemma even worse, I'm planning on asking a girl out at my schools homecoming dance this weekend. So I've got so many different thoughts going through my head right now and my mind is goin a million miles an hour. I just want your thoughts and advice, and if you want to talk on Skype that would be awesome too (my Skype name is in my contact information, so please refer there if you want it). Thanks in advance for your thoughts!

[Extreme586]

Go with what you feel is right. If you want the girl more, take her on a date and see what she's like. This is probably your best option for right now. Taking someone on a date isn't binding and you can get to know the person better and see if there is anything there for you that you want to continue. If you like the guy more and it becomes a problem with you liking this girl and forgetting about him (even if he is straight) then you should probably stop dating her if it gets to that point.

But yeah I think giving her a go to see if you both make a connection is worth the while. Pursuing this guy isn't as likely as having a girl out on a date, I'm not saying it can't happen I'm just saying try your options out first before you jump the gun and go for a guy who probably isn't into guys.

[Alex_3869]

I Don't completely understand the question :) however I completely agree with the poster above!

[ksdnfkfr]

The dude you're crushing on has a gf so he's off limits.
As for the dance, it's just a dance, so if you're lucky enough to get a girl to say yes, go for it. As for being bi, that's something you'll have to work out as you go through your teens, like I'm doing.

[brokenskyline]

Go with what you feel is right. If you want the girl more, take her on a date and see what she's like. This is probably your best option for right now. Taking someone on a date isn't binding and you can get to know the person better and see if there is anything there for you that you want to continue. If you like the guy more and it becomes a problem with you liking this girl and forgetting about him (even if he is straight) then you should probably stop dating her if it gets to that point.

But yeah I think giving her a go to see if you both make a connection is worth the while. Pursuing this guy isn't as likely as having a girl out on a date, I'm not saying it can't happen I'm just saying try your options out first before you jump the gun and go for a guy who probably isn't into guys.

Thats so well said thank you for the advice!

[AbyssalLight7]

Go with the girl, the guy could end up in a ruined friendship and is gonna make you look weird socially, you'll have better luck with a girl.

[Katiya]

Go with a girl for sure for the reasons above ;)