Oral sex

[MisterXeeL]

So I'm in relationship with one girl for about month now. We're both 13 and really opened to each other (truth and shit) and so I would like to try something new. We already kissed, huged and you know things like that but since I'm a boy and I want to discover a little of vagina and do oral sex with her. How shall I ask her and you know, how would you feel if someone asks you that.

Removed the other question as it isn't really appropriate - Siobhan.

[Jamie_P]

I dont mean to offend you, but you're maybe a bit too young to be trying that at the moment, well at least in my opinion. But if you were to go ahead with it, you should definitely ask your girlfriend and see how she feels about oral sex, after all you are both very young and might not be ready for oral sex just yet.

[MisterXeeL]

Yeah, you're right but also I would like to hear others toughts about this.

[kylem1229]

You are probably a little to young, you dont want to do something you will regret. What if this causes you to break up with her in the future? If you still want to go with it, ask her opinions on it. Just don't ruin your relationship over it.

[Harley Quinn]

annnnnd I totally forgot to move the thread, Teen Sexuality :arrow: Puberty for Both Boys and Girls. Haven't had to do that in awhile. :P

[MisterXeeL]

Yes, yes, sure. I'll ask her but I don't think to do anything stupid or rush for it. Thanks for advices.

I would like to hear more, just to know what to think about this.

I'm not thinking like oral sex but masturbating together.

[Schoolboy44]

well i'd see if she's comfortable doing sexual things like that first. if she is, then I'd start out with basic stuff like masturbating together and seeing if she wants to move forward from that

[ska8er]

if she got u off ask her if she would like u to do the same. i would try mutual instead of oral right now. ive done this a few times. we both come the same time.

[darthearth]

Actually, if you look at the surveys on here 13 seems to be the standard age for starting oral, but as far as how to ask I would just casually bring up the topic. If it's gonna work it will flow, if not oh well.

[Saint of Sinners]

I guess masturbating together would be a better starting option, but thread lightly and be careful. Ask in the wrong way and it may backfire. I guess you're just gonna have to ask nicely.