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Inopotamo
September 16th, 2013, 11:11 AM
I recently started working, and i've been working at this place for 2 months, and in those 2 months i have become friends with a woman who works there. But i have grown to really like her in the past 2 weeks, but there is a few issues.

1. She's 32 & i'm 17
2. She's just come off a sexual harassment case
3. She's friends with my mum

I don't know how to approach this. I like her, and i think she might like me a bit too, but i'm stuck.

I feel i got these options.

1. Tell her how i feel

2. Ignore her or remove her from my life somehow

3. Be friends & hope the feelings move on

4. Continue how i'm going with her & hope that something happens

What do you think is best for me (& her of course). Should i take a gamble & tell her, see if my feelings pass, wait for her to make a movement (which may never happen), or remove her from my life/drop it off

Cygnus
September 16th, 2013, 12:06 PM
Dude, no, just no. There will be more downsides than good things to "telling her your "feelings" for her." You will get over it just as people sometimes like their teachers and get over it too, its just a matter of time and your "feelings" will go away.

MoonMan
September 16th, 2013, 12:19 PM
I'm not usually one to judge...but she's nearly twice your age, dude. I think it would be best if you just held off on this one and see if your feelings pass. I highly doubt a 32 year old would have genuine feelings for a 17 year old anyways, but even if she did you have to understand why she might be reluctant to enter a relationship with you. I'm having a hard time seeing how this would work out.