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BreXD
September 15th, 2013, 03:59 PM
My ex broke up with me because I was causing him too much stress. Two months after he breaks up with me, he shows up at my house randomly. I ask him to leave and he says not without a hug. I hug him and then he tells me that he has been considering asking me back out. I asked him why and he says because he thought he would be fine with me not being in his life but he was wrong. If he asks me what do I do.....?!:confused:

kylem1229
September 15th, 2013, 04:06 PM
Its your choice, but Ill see if I can help somehow.

If you really like him, and feel that he will be there for you, and that it will last a long time, go for it. If you are really mad at him for breaking up with you, and think he might do the same again, dont go with him.

It is nice that he came to your house and confessed to his wrong doing. I would reccomend sitting with him, and having a talk with him about the future. What is he going to do in the future? Will the relationship last? Will he be there for you? etc.

Harley Quinn
September 15th, 2013, 04:08 PM
If you want to be with him still, go for it. However, if you don't, I would suggest not going back there. It depends on if you still think the relationship would work, really. You have to do what you think is right in this situation.

MoonMan
September 15th, 2013, 06:09 PM
Do what you think is right and best for yourself. He obviously had no problem with this which lead to him dropping you like hot coal, but at least he's being honest and is willing to admit he may have made a mistake.

BreXD
September 15th, 2013, 06:42 PM
Thank you very much. I will definitely sit down with him and have those discussions. Thank you very much. :)