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piginawig
September 15th, 2013, 02:12 PM
Should I be mad? My brother caught my boyfriend in my room on friday, and even though we weren't doing anything, it was pretty late, around 2:30 am. He got so mad at me he told me I couldn't go the next day to my boyfriend's friend's finca and I had been looking forward to it for the last three weeks. My mom is away on vacations, and he threatened me by saying that if I go to the finca, he'll tell my mom everything. My boyfriend tried talking with my brother that night, and my brother said that maybe he'll let me go. The next day my boyfriend came to my house to try and talk again with my brother but he was asleep and I didn't want to wake him up, or else he'd get angrier. So I didn't get to go, and instead stayed in my house studying all day, while my boyfriend got to go and have fun (I told him he should go), and my brother wasn't home all day because he was out with his friends. I just feel jealous that they went out and had fun while I was bored out of my mind, and that it was also part of my boyfriend's fault we got caught, but he still went out with his friends. What made me feel worse was a text I got from my boyfriend that said he hopes my mom had "a super cool trip", I asked him why would he send me that, and he said it was a drunk friend who send that, and he didn't apologize.

1_21Guns
September 15th, 2013, 03:10 PM
I suppose to me I see it as a 50/50 thing, in one sense you shouldn't have been sneaking your boyfriend in in the first place to get caught, but I do understand your anger. In the end the past is the past, you can't change that it's happened so why stay angry over it now? I know that's easier said than done but it's not really something worth holding a grudge over

piginawig
September 15th, 2013, 05:46 PM
We were actually watching a movie in the TV room, and when we heard the front door open we freaked out and ran to my room and hide. I'm 20 and I feel old enough to have my brother punish and threaten me. But you're right, the past is the past, and I can't do anything about it. But I have one more question, is it right that I feel bad that my boyfriend decided to go?