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JustBrowsin
September 15th, 2013, 01:27 AM
Hey I'm Jake and I have some sexual feelings towards my step sister.

We have known each other for a long time, but only became siblings a few years back. (We are both freshmen, go to different schools.) But ever since shes, "grown" as a way to put it, I have been feeling sexually attracted towards her. Is there a way to satisfy those feelings for her without doing anything hugely drastic?

Thanks, post below with any suggestions/advice...

Castle of Glass
September 15th, 2013, 01:37 AM
well, this will start the who incest/not incest topic, but that is aside from the facts. but, tbh, the only real thing you can do is masturbate. And that is it, unless the feeling becomes mutual, which, to be honest, i highly doubt will happen.

TheLivingLie
September 15th, 2013, 01:37 AM
well, you could either stop at step 1 and keep your love inside of you (which I think you should do), or go to step 2 and tell her about your feelings, not the sexual feelings, feelings like love.

it also depends how old u 2 r.

JustBrowsin
September 15th, 2013, 01:45 AM
it also depends how old u 2 r.

Yeah im 15, so is she

TheLivingLie
September 15th, 2013, 01:54 AM
Yeah im 15, so is she

then maybe you should tell her about both feelings :yes:

Catholic Guy
September 15th, 2013, 03:10 AM
Well as you're not blood relatives if she's up for it you can do anything but if not you can just have a wank thinking about her

ksdnfkfr
September 15th, 2013, 03:53 AM
Yeah that's a really difficult situation and I'm sure it happens a lot. In one way it technically would be incest, but realistically you're less biologically related then 12th cousins ten times removed. But seems like a huge can of worms outside of keeping it in your mind and masturbating.

johnsmith1
September 15th, 2013, 05:56 AM
Hey I'm Jake and I have some sexual feelings towards my step sister.

We have known each other for a long time, but only became siblings a few years back. (We are both freshmen, go to different schools.) But ever since shes, "grown" as a way to put it, I have been feeling sexually attracted towards her. Is there a way to satisfy those feelings for her without doing anything hugely drastic?

Thanks, post below with any suggestions/advice...

I would treat it like any other query that a 15 year old has for another. Your parents aside (many boyfriend/ girlfriend would worry about issues of what their parents think of them. The first and most important question would be how she would feel if you told her your feelings. If you think she likes you (that way) go for it. If you think it could end badly, don't

kylem1229
September 15th, 2013, 06:58 AM
Its probably just hormones/phase. Ive had the same thing before, but it went away. There is really not much you can do about it. Im not gonna say if its incest or not, because its different around here. In some states you can marry siblings, and in others you can't.

ska8er
September 15th, 2013, 08:45 AM
jack off an take a cold shower

justin 13
September 15th, 2013, 08:58 AM
jack off an take a cold shower

Agree, that's sounds weird to me.

TimCox
September 15th, 2013, 10:28 AM
Try to not think about it, over time it will pass.

DerBear
September 15th, 2013, 12:02 PM
Puberty for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

I think this is much more relevant section given the topic at hand.

JustBrowsin
September 15th, 2013, 12:18 PM
Puberty for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

I think this is much more relevant section given the topic at hand.

Thank you, I'm new.
P.S Love the name and the game

Cygnus
September 15th, 2013, 12:25 PM
I think that due to the fact that you aren't blood-related it is completely possible to start something that could be, in the end, accepted. It is all up to you wether you want to hold it or confess.

MoonMan
September 15th, 2013, 04:27 PM
I would probably just jack off and try to forget about if I were you, a lot of issues can develop from this, and it sounds like you're only sexually attracted to her (something you probably are to any hot girl you see) so it shouldn't be too much of a big deal.

Thelizzerd
September 15th, 2013, 04:28 PM
Well...since she is not your sister by blood only by marriage. You could technically go out.

JustBrowsin
September 15th, 2013, 05:03 PM
I would probably just jack off and try to forget about if I were you, a lot of issues can develop from this, and it sounds like you're only sexually attracted to her (something you probably are to any hot girl you see) so it shouldn't be too much of a big deal.

Yes Moon Man im ONLY sexually attracted to her, so is there a way to satisfy those feeling specifically for HER? Not just jacking off, is there a way to settle the feelings or do i just let them pass?

Ive heard of people using their panties or a bra, is that a thing?

Pittsburgh
September 15th, 2013, 05:31 PM
Morally ppl think its wrong but I think if you do act on it and she agrees to it your feeling may change for her once it is no longer forbidden.

MoonMan
September 15th, 2013, 06:03 PM
Yes Moon Man im ONLY sexually attracted to her, so is there a way to satisfy those feeling specifically for HER? Not just jacking off, is there a way to settle the feelings or do i just let them pass?

Ive heard of people using their panties or a bra, is that a thing?

I would advise against using her panties or bra as that is a massive invasion of privacy and could fuck things up if she were to find out, like I said, you should give an effort to try and let these feelings pass. If the feelings don't pass maybe you should try talking to someone about them? It's perfectly normal to be sexually attracted to someone (especially since she's not really blood-related to you) but you must understand how her being your step sister complicates things.

Saint of Sinners
September 16th, 2013, 02:09 AM
I think it's pretty normal to be sexually attracted to a girl, especially since you're not blood related. But i don't recommend taking her undergarments. It'll probably make her really really mad.

jtb124680
September 19th, 2013, 05:57 PM
I think you should find some way to bring it up, get it out in the open and see what happens