Nervous first time

[Michelle685]

I'm kinda nervous to lose my v... What's it feel like? Have you done it yet?

[Shortie]

I can say that everyone is nervous to some degree the first time. I would just make sure its with someone that at least care for you and don't go in there thinking "I'm going to lose my virginity". To be honest, I'm not sure why losing your virginity is that big a deal. Oh just make sure you are ready, might help you relax.

[Michelle685]

I love him and I think he loves me and I jut want to be sure I'm ready before I do it ya know?

[1_21Guns]

In all honesty I'm not sure there is such thing as 'ready'. If you want to then I guess just go for it, it's not a big deal and it's different for everyone, sometimes there's a little blood, some people don't bleed at all, some people it really hurts some it doesn't. In my case I bled a little and it did hurt pretty bad but as long as you try to stay relaxed you should be fine, for me sex is about trusting the person and feeling relaxed so as long as you're both of those everything will be okay :)

[Poisonberry]

if you have a toy or a hair brush you can get through the pain/blood part on your own. I bring it up because some girls are embarrassed about stuff like that.

Also be sure to use protection even if you're using a contraceptive.

[laurakoller0815]

well hear and feel the bottom of your hart if this is really want you want. remember you will never forget it.

[Michelle685]

if you have a toy or a hair brush you can get through the pain/blood part on your own. I bring it up because some girls are embarrassed about stuff like that.

Also be sure to use protection even if you're using a contraceptive.

I want a toy but I can't get one where I'm at and don't have a way to order one online

[Savvynah]

Hvnt done it. Scared too!

[JessZ]

Haven't lost mine yet either, but I am a little scared as well, but still kind of excited too.

[Theekshana]

well if you are comfortable with him and want to do it I guess there's nothing to be scared of. I was kind of excited and looked forward to doing it. lol.. i guess all the making out and doing other stuff but not having actual sex made me want it more and more..

[Poisonberry]

I want a toy but I can't get one where I'm at and don't have a way to order one online

Why can't you get a toy in Ohio, it's not like you're in Texas or Oklahoma? LOL.

But seriously there are plenty of ways to get one and if you can't get a real one there are plenty of other things you can substitute, just have a look around the kitchen or bathroom. ;)

[Jennboh]

Hvnt done it. Scared too!

lol same! :D

[numbness]

Just stay relaxed and go with it :) and remember if you think your not ready just tell him

[emily-candace]

haven't lost mine yet either, can't afford to get pregnant at 17 and not ready to start a family yet by my self.

[Nicola14Swaggy]

I'd like to lose mine

[Sandra Main]

Haven't lost mine either.
Only gave bj to exbf.
That doesn't count

[KellyNC]

It's a normal thing even if you're completely prepared/ready especially as you're going into it and during the early parts, but in my experience that melted away after the first few minutes, allowing for my partner and I to have a pleasurable first time.

[melissa13]

When i lost mine i bled very little but i had been using my fingers and my hair brush for a year and had already torn mine. I wasn't scared but he was huge and i was sore a bit for next 2 days.

[ellawood]

I was nervous but after that it was really good