Broken Box
September 14th, 2013, 02:28 PM
Hey everyone. So I've had a crush on this girl for almost a year now. It all started last year in my junior year and lasted through the summer. She was in my class last year but I was too afraid to talk to or approach her. I felt like I blew it but I was given a second chance this year because I see her for a few minutes everyday. I really want to talk to her but I'm afraid I'll mess up or be awkward (I'm already quiet around people I don't know we'll.)
My second issue is that she is absolutely gorgeous in every way and I'm not really attractive and I'm a bit overweight (I've lost some weight during the summer and I'm still working on it but have some more work to do.) Because of this, I am a bit intimidated and feel like she wouldn't want to talk to me.
Despite all this, I do have hope for one reason: my close friend is good friends with my crush and talks to her a lot. I was thinking about asking him to come with me to talk to her so it may be easier for me to get into a conversation and get comfortable. I'm still worried that I will freeze up, act awkward or act like I'm trying too hard though.
So my questions are how do I get over these fears and worries and get the courage to talk to her? Is taking my friend with me a good idea? I really like her a lot and want to talk to her and get to know her more but I'm being held back by myself. I regretted not talking to her last year and hated myself for it. I don't want to blow it again and think about what could have happened. I need help :(
My second issue is that she is absolutely gorgeous in every way and I'm not really attractive and I'm a bit overweight (I've lost some weight during the summer and I'm still working on it but have some more work to do.) Because of this, I am a bit intimidated and feel like she wouldn't want to talk to me.
Despite all this, I do have hope for one reason: my close friend is good friends with my crush and talks to her a lot. I was thinking about asking him to come with me to talk to her so it may be easier for me to get into a conversation and get comfortable. I'm still worried that I will freeze up, act awkward or act like I'm trying too hard though.
So my questions are how do I get over these fears and worries and get the courage to talk to her? Is taking my friend with me a good idea? I really like her a lot and want to talk to her and get to know her more but I'm being held back by myself. I regretted not talking to her last year and hated myself for it. I don't want to blow it again and think about what could have happened. I need help :(