can a girl ever like an ugly guy?

[LonelyBoy]

Could a attractive girl ever like guy that is average perhaps even below average?

I often walk through parks and see couples romantically in love together, but they are all very good looking people. At times i see that the guy is better looking compared to his gf, but never the opposite.

I am wondering if a girl could ever find a slightly below average guy, who is only 5'7 in height attractive.

[The Trendy Wolf]

Of course! There are girls who like all kinds of guys! You aren't alone, and I'm sure that there is someone out there looking for you :D

[Poisonberry]

At times i see that the guy is better looking compared to his gf, but never the opposite.

I quoted the part I think is the most important about your question. Are you willing to have an unattractive girlfriend? If so, your own observation should tell you that it's possible. If you're looking for a more attractive girlfriend that may be harder because as a girl goes up in attractiveness the more options she has.

Maybe looks shouldn't be your focus and finding a nice person that likes you would work better?

[LonelyBoy]

I quoted the part I think is the most important about your question. Are you willing to have an unattractive girlfriend? If so, your own observation should tell you that it's possible. If you're looking for a more attractive girlfriend that may be harder because as a girl goes up in attractiveness the more options she has.

Maybe looks shouldn't be your focus and finding a nice person that likes you would work better?

well i consider myself a 3/10 in looks, so hate to sound shallow but a women that is looks matched with me i dont find attractive. Im aiming for a women in the 5-6 range, i dont think i am asking for too much.

Btw im doing everything i can to improve but i think i have hit my genetic limit. I go to the gym and try to eat healthy, dress ok etc

[Poisonberry]

well i consider myself a 3/10 in looks, so hate to sound shallow but a women that is looks matched with me i dont find attractive. Im aiming for a women in the 5-6 range, i dont think i am asking for too much.


LOL. I suppose time will tell.

I don't use the 1-10 range thing to judge looks but I think it's kinda funny that you want something better than you bring to the table. If you think of it as an upside down pyramid the 1's at the bottom have very few choices, the 10's at the top have every possible choice. I think it's unlikely, if looking for a relationship based on looks is that important to you that you will find a girl that is willing to trade down so to speak. But good luck.

[LonelyBoy]

LOL. I suppose time will tell.

I don't use the 1-10 range thing to judge looks but I think it's kinda funny that you want something better than you bring to the table. If you think of it as an upside down pyramid the 1's at the bottom have very few choices, the 10's at the top have every possible choice. I think it's unlikely, if looking for a relationship based on looks is that important to you that you will find a girl that is willing to trade down so to speak. But good luck.

but what about things such as personality, confidence and being funny? I thought these things mattered more to women, and looks were not so important to women?

Maybe looks are just as important to women, if not more, then compared to men :(

[musicjunkie1310]

Could a attractive girl ever like guy that is average perhaps even below average?

I often walk through parks and see couples romantically in love together, but they are all very good looking people. At times i see that the guy is better looking compared to his gf, but never the opposite.

I am wondering if a girl could ever find a slightly below average guy, who is only 5'7 in height attractive.

Well, to be honest, the guy I like is just a tad taller than me, a tad above 5'7. And so what? To me it's the personality that matters the most, not looks, not height. *shrugs*

[MoonMan]

Could you ever like an ugly girl OP? There are other forms of attraction other than physical, even though that's the initial form of attraction, a relationship is not limited to it. If you're only going for 5's and 6's (lol) then be prepared to be alone for a little while because, chances are, these girls are most likely going for guys who are at least within their range or maybe even above. Stop worrying about where they fucking place on some bullshit scale and just try to find a girl who likes you for who you are and who you enjoy being around. If she happens to be attractive then that's icing on the cake.

[LonelyBoy]

unfortunately i cant feel attracted to women who are in the 3/10 looks range like me.

I am only attracted to women 5 and up, and think at best i can only get 5 and 6 women.

I would be happy with a average looking girl, but its too hard for me to even et that

[Poisonberry]

unfortunately i cant feel attracted to women who are in the 3/10 looks range like me.

I am only attracted to women 5 and up, and think at best i can only get 5 and 6 women.

I would be happy with a average looking girl, but its too hard for me to even et that

Do you see how you sound? Change this from looks to money... I'm really lazy so I want to find someone that can make a lot of money and support me. Unfortunately I just can't be with someone as poor and lazy as me.

See how that sounds? Yeah, that's this conversation.

[conniption]

Do you see how you sound? Change this from looks to money... I'm really lazy so I want to find someone that can make a lot of money and support me. Unfortunately I just can't be with someone as poor and lazy as me.

See how that sounds? Yeah, that's this conversation.

*nods in agreement*

[badthoughts]

well i consider myself a 3/10 in looks
Well, start considering yourself more. Don't puff your chest out because you'll get humbled real quick, but start thinking of yourself better than what you do now. You exude what you believe, and if you believe you're unattractive and of low self worth and have a "woe is me, poor pitiful me" attitude, then you will exude ugliness and weakness, and nobody finds that attractive.

Since you love using a scale, say out loud "I am a 6." Say it with confidence, like you believe it. Keep saying it. Assert it! Then smile at people, girls and guys alike, knowing you're now this "6" that is personable, engaging, interested in others, open and accepting, positive, and a whole host of other attractive qualities. Google the traits of positive and successful people and emulate those traits. Because it's who you are that will make you your coveted "10," not what you look like.

i think i have hit my genetic limit.
lololololololololololol

I don't think so. Good luck though.

[Jess]

It depends on how people interpret your attractiveness. Maybe you think you're ugly, but if a girl likes you, she certain won't think so or at least not care.

[LonelyBoy]

Do you see how you sound? Change this from looks to money... I'm really lazy so I want to find someone that can make a lot of money and support me. Unfortunately I just can't be with someone as poor and lazy as me.

See how that sounds? Yeah, that's this conversation.

But thats the thing, you can improve your money and income by working hard, going to school etc. You can lose weight by exercise

But you cant improve things like face, bone structure and height.

If i was fat and complaining why i cant get a attractive girlfriend then it would be hypocritical as i was too lazy to improve, but for my situation right now i cant improve my looks

I dont think i am asking for too much, just a average looking girl or slightly above average looking, some thing for me to be attracted to. Of course she will need more then looks.

[MoonMan]

But thats the thing, you can improve your money and income by working hard, going to school etc. You can lose weight by exercise

But you cant improve things like face, bone structure and height.

If i was fat and complaining why i cant get a attractive girlfriend then it would be hypocritical as i was too lazy to improve, but for my situation right now i cant improve my looks

I dont think i am asking for too much, just a average looking girl or slightly above average looking, some thing for me to be attracted to. Of course she will need more then looks.
Assuming all relationships revolve around face, bone structure, and height. Lmao keep blaming your lack of a girlfriend entirely on your looks and you won't get anywhere. You're limiting yourself even more than your looks already are with this retarded scale of your's and shallow excuses. It's entirely possible for an attractive girl to like you, but you have to compensate for your looks with a stellar personality and (in all honesty) have to work harder for it. Right now, you come off as a shallow, hypocritical, bore with low self esteem. That's certainly not helping your chances.
Perhaps you should work on something you can improve, like your shitty outlook on relationships, instead of something you can't change.

[gotstyle]

Dam holy shot seemed like u guys put him down more then up. Anyway girls like all kinds of guys like lately I have seen more sexy girls with more lazy fat rude guys which is aggravating to me. But yes there's a one for everyone just got to go farther and deeper and look u might think ur a 3 and u could end up with a 10/10 girls that considers u a 10 :)

[Cece14]

As long as you got a good personality, then yeah!

[Croconaw]

A lot of girls go for the personality rather than looks. Looks don't mean anything in a relationship.