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John1995_1
September 13th, 2013, 05:19 PM
I can't help but seem to look like a creep towards the girl I like. (Found out from a girl who is my friend who I have a little feelings for).

So, What are the signs of a creep

Supermeggs12
September 13th, 2013, 05:43 PM
I don't really understand your question. But it's actually normal for boys and girls. I'm 14 year old girl and I act really creepy and odd when I develope a crush on someone.

James Bond
September 13th, 2013, 05:47 PM
We really can't tell you because you didn't list what you did. I guess if you follow her constantly or always text her or talk to her it cam be seen as creepy.

clueless_one
September 13th, 2013, 05:52 PM
I don't really understand your question. But it's actually normal for boys and girls. I'm 14 year old girl and I act really creepy and odd when I develope a crush on someone.

I mean I always stare and look at the girl I like in maybe a creepy way. I had looked at the girl I had slight feelings for and was told that I am creepy by her. But I'm shy which makes it difficult for me. So it's usually in the way I stare at the girl I like that makes them think of me as a creep. I just don't understand why, I'm a shy guy and get scared to do any thing so I just stare.

With the girl I like now, I was looking at my teacher and was looking at the girl I like also. I looked at her for about a minute and she gave a slight smile and then tried to hide her smile (from what I think, or did she find me a creep from then). I'm not sure what to do, I stare at the girl I like because I'm shy and I might look like a creep by doing so.

We really can't tell you because you didn't list what you did. I guess if you follow her constantly or always text her or talk to her it cam be seen as creepy.

I don't have her number so I don't text her, I have her Facebook and still don't message her, I have also hardly spoken to the girl I like only sometimes.

SkootuGurl
September 13th, 2013, 11:21 PM
I have also hardly spoken to the girl I like only sometimes.

Try staring at her less, and talking to her more. I know you said you were shy and that makes it difficult, but if you don't talk to her, and just stare at her all the time, it will come across the wrong way.

BuryYourFlame
September 14th, 2013, 07:39 AM
Trying to hard is honestly what brings on the creepyness from my experience. You have to be fine with yourself without a girlfriend, you know you'll be just fine even if it doesn't go as planned. Then after you've gone through that you can start with friendship, then if you're lucky a relationship.

I've also found the reason the creepy factor becomes an issue with a lot of guys is they hold girls to a totally different standard, as in they don't really see them as people, rather some kind of demi-god or something. If you realise that they're people as well and treat them as such, you're going to have a much greater chance than if you worship them and consider them on a totally different level. Not saying you're doing that, just that it can be a factor.