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Supermeggs12
September 13th, 2013, 04:19 PM
I really liked this guy, so I figured I had nothing to lose by telling him the truth. Here's what happened:

"I like you, and think you're cute. What do you think of me?" I whispered.

"You're awesome," he said.

"Do you like me?" I asked.

"Yeah, I like you."

But then I was confused because my friend told me that he might've only meant he liked me as a friend. So I asked again did he like-like me and he said, "I don't know". And only a few minutes after, I caught him rolling his eyes at me. The next day, I ignored him and he kept staring at me always wanted to be near me. Plus, I heard one of his guy friends say, "She's probably just playing hard to get". I decided to stop ignoring him, so I started texting him. The only reason I ever ignored him was because his answer confused me. I sent him a nice text saying, "Sorry by making things awkward between us by saying I liked you.." and he didn't reply, even though he read it....

I saw him today for the first time in two months, and I ask, "Do you like me....you did say that you did..." and he said, "Oh really? I don't remember that, I only like you as a friend! We only see each other once a week!" And now, he acts really awkward around me. I'll tell a really funny joke, and everyone will laugh, except him. Plus, he's always around me.... So strange.*

To let you know, we're 14. And he's never had gf. He's the outgoing/joker type.

Supermeggs12
September 13th, 2013, 05:01 PM
Help me.

geran
September 13th, 2013, 05:13 PM
some time us guys say that to avoid say how we really feel or he really may i hope that helps

Supermeggs12
September 13th, 2013, 10:17 PM
Thanks.

Ariesboy
September 13th, 2013, 10:23 PM
Well to me it sounds like he was surprised by the fact that you like him. Because he is inexperienced he didny really know how to react, or handle it. If I were you I wouldn't try and push him to give you an answer.he will come around on his own.

MoonMan
September 14th, 2013, 06:56 AM
He's never had a girlfriend before and he's only 14, his balls probably shriveled into raisins the moment you told him you liked him because he has no idea what to do. He probably likes you back but doesn't know how to go about it, or maybe he's telling the truth and only sees you as a friend. Either way you should ease off on him a little (but don't completely ignore him because you might end up causing problems) he'll come to his senses in due time and then you'll get an honest answer.

ksdnfkfr
September 14th, 2013, 07:04 AM
It sounds to me like he's having fear of commitment problems. From what I understand that's a fairly typical guy trait. He doesn't want to get roped in, doesn't want to get tied down etc. But, he does like you which is why he's always around you.

Supermeggs12
September 14th, 2013, 08:39 PM
He's never had a girlfriend before and he's only 14, his balls probably shriveled into raisins the moment you told him you liked him because he has no idea what to do. He probably likes you back but doesn't know how to go about it, or maybe he's telling the truth and only sees you as a friend. Either way you should ease off on him a little (but don't completely ignore him because you might end up causing problems) he'll come to his senses in due time and then you'll get an honest answer.

Haha I laughed when you said, "his balls probably shriveled up!"

Saint of Sinners
September 16th, 2013, 03:07 AM
Well, I think he doesn't know what to do, seeing he's inexperienced. Just try to talk to him without bringing it up.