View Full Version : isn't it kind of perverted to look at porn
raidersuck
January 24th, 2008, 07:22 PM
isn't sort of wierd cause if your a teenager whos going through puberty and stuff, the stuff people look, those people are probably at least 5 years older then you or something
Hauptmann Kauffman
January 24th, 2008, 07:26 PM
No, i dont see how thats wierd or perverted
Sugaree
January 24th, 2008, 07:50 PM
No it isn't weird or perverted. and how does the title come into effect with the question you are asking?
Sapphire
January 24th, 2008, 08:22 PM
I'm not sure. I've argued with myself over this for as many years as I have been looking at porn in varying degrees. The argument is inconclusive so far.
How do you feel when you watch or look at porn?
how does the title come into effect with the question you are asking?
He's asking whether its weird to look at porn because they are so much older than teenagers going through puberty.
chris__robin
January 24th, 2008, 09:19 PM
nope, i dont think you are focusing on how old the people in the movie are while youre watching it, most people would be too focused on the action.
if you are aroused by porn and enjoy it there's not really an issue, apart from being underage, but theres nothing you can do but watch people who are 18 or older.
MoveAlong
January 24th, 2008, 09:43 PM
I don't think so. I mean, when you're an adult you could be into someone 10 years older or younger than you, and even more. My mom was married to a guy 20 years younger than her.
And if you look at it as teen/adult thing, I still don't think so, because it's not like looking at a kid who's supposed to be non-sexual. Adults are sexually mature and I think it's natural to be attracted to those who are sexually mature.
Dolphus Raymond
January 24th, 2008, 10:44 PM
"Weird" and "perverted" are very non-specific, subjective terms.
Weird - No, looking at porn isn't weird by any definition I can think of. Like many things sexual, our society has weird standards. Jokingly mention you look at porn is fine. Being caught doing it? Embarrassing! But overall, I don't think most will judge you "weird" for looking at porn. But most people do consider it private.
Perverted - Hard to say. What do you mean by perverted? Dictionary says "deviating from what is correct and right." Porn is the sort of thing many people object to because society tells them they should. That's not to discount the bad sides of porn. Yes, it's degrading to those involved. But does that make it immoral? Up to you. I personally don't think it's immoral, even if I don't care for it.
But the important thing is to differentiate porn from real sex and real relationships. You treat a girl like they're treated in porn, and she'd have every right to kick your ass. As long as you keep the fakeness in mind, I don't think it does much damage.
It's the sort of thing you have to develop your own moral compass on, and this is as far as we can help you in that. :)
byee
January 25th, 2008, 09:50 PM
I think the OP is asking for confirmation that it's OK to get aroused by 'older' (18+) year olds having sex. And the answer to that very specific question (if I understand it correctly) is no, it's not perverted. Adults (18+) have sex, it's an adult activity. And sex is arousing. So, for horny young teenage guys, watching adults have sex is going to be veeeery arousing! Nothing 'perverted' about that! Remember, sex is a normal activity for adults (18+).
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