Please help me :(

[MyNameIs.]

So me and my girlfriend are now together for 8 months. And today she said things to me that make me feel guilty but the incidents happend months ago and she wont shut up about them and they are just so stupid. It just makes me feel more and more guilty about myself. And plz help me :( I just dont know what to do

[byee]

Jarne, without knowing the details, it's a hard to be precise with an answer. But typically, when someone remarks about some long ago incident, it's best to not get defensive, apologize if appropriate, and ask them what they'd like form you, what they want. A lot of times, it's an acknowledgement of wrong doing, and the pain or hurt it caused them, and a reassurance you understand all that and wont do it again.

[Starsong]

Try and find out how she feels about it, and then try and do something to make up for it. You may see it as something stupid but she may think it's more important.

Best of luck (:

[Chris Daniels]

I think it is useless/non-sense to bring things up that happened months ago. But well not all people thinks the same, talk to her. If you love her, bear with it.

[Poisonberry]

So me and my girlfriend are now together for 8 months. And today she said things to me that make me feel guilty but the incidents happend months ago and she wont shut up about them and they are just so stupid. It just makes me feel more and more guilty about myself. And plz help me :( I just dont know what to do

You may not like this, if not please feel free to ignore it.

Your relationship is in trouble. Unless something huge changes, which is unlikely, this bringing up old things will only get worse. The longer you're together, the more there will be to bring up.

My advice is to get out now. You're only 15 you have plenty of time to find the right person for you. If the way she's making you feel is not how you want to feel then you need to get out. Life is too short to suffer in a bad relationship that most likely will not get better.