Question for you girls. -From a Guy-

[bub9999]

Hey girls I just had a quick question for y'all. This might sounds kinda weird but here goes. I have a girlfriend and she has been my best for awhile. We are both virgins and i'm not interested in having sex or doing anything like that untill marriage. So please do not view this question in a sexual light. Im just curious. When I hug her or whatever and my hand is on her back sometimes i feel the back of her bra... Not intentionally or anything just that is where my hand rests when I touch her. Do you girls feel that when we touch your back? Cause i don't want to give my gf the wrong impression just i feel it sometimes and i immediately think that she feels me touching it. If u girls do feel it do u think anything of it? or is totally normal...? Like i said this isn't sexual at all. It's just the opposite. I just don't want her to feel like im touching her bra on purpose when im not. So do u feel it when guys do that unintentionally?

[stoneflowe96]

Inmy opinion you should just relax. Yes when you hug a girl you can feel a bit of her bra. so what. I as a girl don't minde. This happens and is normal. Personally I find this situation better than boys. who hug me and "accidently" touch my butt. In a good situation you could also ask. your gf and tell about your thoughts.

[bub9999]

Inmy opinion you should just relax. Yes when you hug a girl you can feel a bit of her bra. so what. I as a girl don't minde. This happens and is normal. Personally I find this situation better than boys. who hug me and "accidently" touch my butt. In a good situation you could also ask. your gf and tell about your thoughts.

OK thx for your opinion. I'm not doing it on purpose or in a sexual way it's just i don't want her to feel like i am doing it on purpose. I'm sure she doesn't think so. we both totally trust each other in our relationship and like i said it only happens by accident. I just don't want her to feel like im purposely doing it even tho im sure she knows im not. Anyone's else have anything to say?

[bub9999]

Can anyone else help me out on this? offer me some advice?

[Taryn98]

You need to chill out. This isn't a big deal. And if you have such a great relationship like you say, then you should be able to ask her directly about such things if you're concerned.

[bub9999]

I disagree. While we do have a great relationship I think it would be extremely awkward to ask her about such a thing...

[Happyguy1]

You just need to relax and enjoy, a Bra clasp is where its at and its not going to move, I don't think any girl would object if your hugging and your hand rests on it,, start messing with it am that's different turf :) or move your hand down,, I don't believe its anything to even be concerned with.
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