View Full Version : Somebody please help!
DarkHorse4eva
September 11th, 2013, 09:42 AM
Please delete this thread
Harley Quinn
September 11th, 2013, 09:50 AM
You throw yourself right in the deep end if you do love him, you tell him. These feelings will only continue to eat you alive until you do something about it, if he gets scared that's okay. It's a natural reaction, but you don't know what's going to happen until you allow yourself to feel the emotion. I know you're scared, but isn't it better that he knows? Weigh up the pros and cons and go from there, but I do think you should tell him if your love is that serious.
DarkHorse4eva
September 11th, 2013, 09:55 AM
Please delete this thread
Living For Love
September 11th, 2013, 10:44 AM
You don't need to tell him right now, I guess. Why don't you just continue to be a good friend to him, hanging out, do things together, know him better... That way he will trust you more and when you two are really really close, just tell him what you feel. If you help him enough and make him know that you are always there for him, maybe he could also started to develop some feelings for you, and you guys could start a serious relationship.
DarkHorse4eva
September 11th, 2013, 10:55 AM
Please delete this thread
Living For Love
September 11th, 2013, 11:18 AM
i would love to be closer to him, but if/when i we get close and i tell him what i feel i might scare him away
Just don't tell him what you feel for him yet. Act like you want him to be your friend and not your boyfriend. Don't try to rush things up.
DarkHorse4eva
September 11th, 2013, 01:10 PM
Please delete this thread
Living For Love
September 11th, 2013, 03:01 PM
i need to tell him someday, maybe before i get really close to him, but not yet. if if i tell him before i get really close, i might not get hurt as much
Try to find out if he supports LGBT or what is his attitude towards homosexuals. But remember that if you tell him your gay, of if you reveal that you are in love with him, he'll never see you again with the same way.
DarkHorse4eva
September 12th, 2013, 12:57 AM
Please delete this thread
Axw_JD
September 12th, 2013, 02:58 AM
congrats, you got a great friend :)
I am not sure about how to approach him about you liking him. I hope it all works out well for you :)
DarkHorse4eva
September 12th, 2013, 02:54 PM
Please delete this thread
Abyssal Echo
September 12th, 2013, 02:58 PM
The only thing I can say Ras is to tell him how you feel about him.
I wish you the best. I hope it turns out alright for you.
Abyssal Echo
September 12th, 2013, 03:00 PM
sorry for the double post computers messing up :(
Chris Daniels
September 12th, 2013, 03:18 PM
If you don't do something, you'll regret it later on. And I can guarantee you that. There's nothing wrong with saying it. And who knows? If he would try things out between the two of you, he might become a major reason of a good change in your life.
But. But if he would not, please learn to accept no matter how hard it is. I can also guarantee you (I am not saying he's not worthy because he's bad for not accepting your feelings) but that there will be one person who will be coming in your life who is better than him.
And meanwhile, if you're confused, maybe you need to figure out something in your life and try fixing it but of course, it would take time. I wish you all the best.
DarkHorse4eva
September 13th, 2013, 12:02 PM
Please delete this thread
vBulletin® v3.8.9, Copyright ©2000-2021, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.