Oral Sex for Heteros

[darthearth]

I've been wondering this for a long time. I hate to ask another sex question here, it seems there are so many already. But how quickly does oral sex happen between straight couples? I know that when two guys get together it's pretty much immediate and regular. But what about a guy and a girl?

How about a 3 question survey. Thanks!



Have you had oral with the opposite sex?

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person?

How regularly did you have it?

[LuisFer]

Depends on the girl, usually after a couple of months into the relationship, sometimes more

Not every time but it is often

[AMERICANelite123]

I believe oral sex is almost more personal than intercourse.
Oral sex can occur as soon as the first date or even years after knowing one another. I know that oral sex came rather quickly in my current relationship. Me to him first and a while after for myself. Sometimes oral sex seems taboo for a male to do to a female and not as much for a female to do to a male. But to sum things up it truly depends on the people involved in the relationship.

[justinglives]

If you're straight, after how many dates does oral sex usually happen?
**depends on the couple. Pretty much depends on a lot of factors, like was there making out involved, sleepovers, intimate conversation before? My experience has been that oral usually takes place only after the couple is REALLY comfortable with each other. Personally, if a girl goes down on me, I feel it is only fair to return the favor.

Does it happen regularly (like at the end of every date)?
**No, not every date. Again, depends on the situation. Once oral does happen, it is a a lot easier to "break the ice" as in "Awwww........can I take care of that for you.....???"

[Happyguy1]

Too many variables, I would say it all depends on the moment, how both feel etc once in a trusting relationship I believe it to be normal? however I read some people don't like it so learn as you go

[darthearth]

Thanks for the responses. I guess the questions were meant to ask about personal experience since a lot of people taking these surveys have said they have had oral sex, almost universal with the gay male ones, and pretty much universal for all straight or bi (opposite sex) ones who have done anything at all. I was just wondering how different it is for the straight/bi(opposite sex) people filling out these surveys as compared to two guys.


How about these questions for the survey, I'll replace the original questions too:


Have you had oral with the opposite sex?

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person?

How regularly did you have it?

[CoolCaliGuy]

in adult relationships usually like a couple dates.
but for teens (such as myself) usually 2-3 months.

[joshylandon]

I think it depends on how close the couples are and what do they think about sex and stuff. I have gone out with a few girls before but we did nothing sexual. My current girlfriend gave blowjob to me like two weeks after we start dating but we don't do it often and regularly, we do it whenever we have time and privacy and feel like doing blowjobs and stuff.

[ClaireS]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? Yep.

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened? The first time was with a friend that I had knew for some years.

How regularly did you have it? Everyday

[SeanM1997]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? YES

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened? A MONTH

How regularly did you have it? ALMOST EVERYDAY

[Theekshana]

it just randomly happened. i don't think there's a definite way for it to happen.

[deregisterme]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? Yep.

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened? The first time was with a friend that I had knew for some years.

How regularly did you have it? Everyday

You have a very lucky friend!

[Swagging god]

I've been wondering this for a long time. I hate to ask another sex question here, it seems there are so many already. But how quickly does oral sex happen between straight couples? I know that when two guys get together it's pretty much immediate and regular. But what about a guy and a girl?

How about a 3 question survey. Thanks!



Have you had oral with the opposite sex? yes

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened? the first girl I gave oral to was my older brother's gf, when I was 13, they had been dating for about 3 years before.

How regularly did you have it? everyday I can

[wirelessbrain]

not yet unfortunately

[darthearth]

Thanks for the replies, learned a lot, it certainly seems it is VERY different for opposite sex couples than it is for two boys. Anyone else?

[nicole97]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? yes

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person? just had been dating for a while. I'd been giving him h/js and felt like it was the next step

How regularly did you have it? Pretty regularly while I've been dating.

[Jason98]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? Yes

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person? Ive done it with a lot of different girls and with each one it was different. It ranged from like right after I met them to maybe a week or two later
How regularly do you have it? couple times a week usually

[grossgod11]

It all depends on the time and sort of relationship you have built up with the person, and what morals they have it varies to much to give on answer for those question, but like others have said, anywhere from a date, one hanging out, to years down the line.

[hipster101]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? Yes! I love it.

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person? At that time, I had know the first girl it was with for a few months, and then the next girl it happened with I had known her for a month or so...

How regularly did you have it? Girlfriend and I havent gotten there yet

[Karkat]

I had oral before I had vaginal sex the first time. RIGHT before, actually. So yeah.

[Tristar21]

To answer the first, Yes.

I had texted/called/talked not face to face for at least 2 months, but had only met her the day of. Nothing was planned, but a mutual attraction over the months had accumulated to one big and very regrettable day. I lost every virginity I could think of and never saw her again. So that kind of answers the third one. But to be more specific, and less, it varies. The skill level of both members as well as the intent plays a role. Are you doing it to get off? Or to really enjoy something? Is it your partners first time? Odds are it will take a while. Oral sex shouldn't vary between gay or straight couples either, sex is sex, and doesn't magically morph into an abstract idea of absurdity the human mind is incapable of comprehending. Its still just sex.

[Lovecraft]

Pretty much right after I became sexually active with my current SO. The day after we first had sex I asked him if I could give him a BJ, he said of course, and the rest is history. I'd been hanging out with him under a romantic pretence for maybe a week or two. I do it pretty much whenever we hang out, and he reciprocates maybe half the time.

[backjruton]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? No.
This is my only input. I wouldn't want to anyway

[jayce_xt]

I don't know about anyone else, but I love going down on girls. Maybe I have a fetish for it? Anyway, on average, it takes about a week or so before I'm comfortable enough with it. Once we start doing it, though, I usually try to give her an orgasm that way whenever I can. Heh... now I feel like I'm weird for liking it so much, but can't stop grinning, either...

[darthearth]

Thanks for all the responses. I thought I would bump this in case anyone else wants to add to the information. Thanks. It still seems like it's the first priority with two boys, but not the same when girls are involved. I guess I might expect that given the obvious differences between boys and girls and how sex is looked upon in general by them.

[Zsofia]

It's not a big deal. I would even have oral sex for fun without intercourse if the guy is nice. I know one night stands are a bit bitchy but I would rather do oral not being worried later on if I got any infection down there.
Oral is a very nice foreplay aswell. So if I decide to sleep with a guy, I'm ok do that straight away.

[Tyler97]

It's not a big deal. I would even have oral sex for fun without intercourse if the guy is nice. I know one night stands are a bit bitchy but I would rather do oral not being worried later on if I got any infection down there.
Oral is a very nice foreplay aswell. So if I decide to sleep with a guy, I'm ok do that straight away.

you can get an infection in your mouth from sucking an infected penis or licking an infected vulva, you should know the person before doing this, no one night stands.

[Buddy 912]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex? Yep.

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened? The first time was with a girl I knew for a few weeks.

How regularly did you have it? Almost everyday

[biancachica]

Have you had oral with the opposite sex?yes

If so, how long had you been dating/hanging out the first time it happened with that person? The first time was with my bf and we were dating for several months

How regularly did you have it? every week or so

[crazyBoyjJ]

Never had oral sex

[hatsoff123]

Have you had oral sex with the opposite sex? I always have. Don't think I will ever try or "experiment" with the same gender.

How long had you guys been dating before getting oral sex? Happened the next day or also the 2nd date.

How long would you have it? Pretty much all the time. I would never complain no matter how good or bad it was