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GZC97
September 10th, 2013, 08:06 PM
Ok, I don't want to bore you with my lady troubles so ill try to make this as short and concise as i can.
There is this girl in my class, lets call her Jess. I am almost positive that she has a thing for me. Unless i am totally socially inept (which I might be), she has to like me somewhat. I think that I like her too; she is nice to me, open, listen to all the boring stuff that comes out of my mouth. By open, i mean is a emotional/sexual way. She can talk about feelings and sex stuff to me without making me or herself feel awkward. You might be thinking 'what's the problem bro you like her she likes you get in it etc.', or you might think i'm just bragging. I have a few problems: (1) Some of my friends say she is "unclean and poor". I mean, it looks like she takes care of herself. They basically are saying i shouldn't get involved with her. (2) She is not the hottest girl in the world. She's not ugly, by any means, but she isn't, lets say, the person I imagined to be my first girlfriend. That may seem shallow, but thats what I'm thinking. (3) She seems kind of insincere at times. Just little white lies that are obviously not true.

If you got it this far, congratulations. I just wanted to know your thoughts on this. Should I go after her? I want to have a girlfriend, but I guess im be precautious.

Plasma
September 10th, 2013, 08:08 PM
I'd say ask her to hang out outside of school and see how she really is? If you like her, you shouldn't care about what others think

Blood
September 10th, 2013, 08:32 PM
I'd say ask her to hang out outside of school and see how she really is? If you like her, you shouldn't care about what others think

Yeah, you really need need to get to know her better before making any quick decisions.

GZC97
September 10th, 2013, 08:38 PM
Yeah, you really need need to get to know her better before making any quick decisions.
I'd say ask her to hang out outside of school and see how she really is? If you like her, you shouldn't care about what others think
Sorry I didn't mention this. We do hang out outside of school on occasion. I mean, out of the 4 days i've had school, i've been with her 2. I would also want to get her number, but I don't really know how to ask her that. I also don't want to seem like i'm to interested in her or anything.

Blood
September 10th, 2013, 08:40 PM
Sorry I didn't mention this. We do hang out outside of school on occasion. I mean, out of the 4 days i've had school, i've been with her 2. I would also want to get her number, but I don't really know how to ask her that. I also don't want to seem like i'm to interested in her or anything.

How long have you known her for?

Plasma
September 10th, 2013, 08:41 PM
Sorry I didn't mention this. We do hang out outside of school on occasion. I mean, out of the 4 days i've had school, i've been with her 2. I would also want to get her number, but I don't really know how to ask her that. I also don't want to seem like i'm to interested in her or anything.

Just... ask... There isn't some kind of secret method to it. Who cares if you seem interested? You wouldn't be posting on here if you weren't interested

GZC97
September 10th, 2013, 08:54 PM
How long have you known her for?
Like a year or so.

Blood
September 10th, 2013, 09:01 PM
Like a year or so.

Go ahead and ask for her number. If she's really interested she'll give it to you. And then you guys can start texting and maybe you'll get to know her better.

Living For Love
September 11th, 2013, 03:57 AM
I suggest you go for it. She seems to trust you enough as she is open to talk about anything with you.

1_21Guns
September 11th, 2013, 04:38 AM
If you hang out sometimes it's not going to be a strange thing if you ask her for her number, looks aren't everything, yeah they can be a big part but they're not everything, your first relationship is rarely the fairytale you hoped :P if you like her just go for it like the others have said, your friends opinions don't really matter because it's not their relationship :)

Running420
September 11th, 2013, 05:02 AM
You have a great oppotunity to get a 'friend with benefit' or what you would call it, so you should go for it.. She dont have to be your girlfriend if you dont want to..