Fast answer needed.

[Despot]

I need some help with communication in school. If you are new in some class and they know each other for a year now..

How would you fit in? How will you start communication? How to be talkative and communicative even if they ignore u at start, and how to be interesting? What will you do if you will be in yard and everyone is in groups and u are alone, and no one speaks with u? Please tell what would you do to fit in fast and to be interesting. Thanks

[kylem1229]

I just walk up and say Hi, get to know them, ask if you can be in their group. If they ignore you, try a different group of people, everyone's different.

[Despot]

It aint so easy mate :)

[StoppingTime]

I wish it was easier than it was, and that there was just this amazing way to get people to listen to you and take you as a friend. From my experiences (though I'm somewhat antisocial/anxious around a lot of people in general) there's no one way. You just need to throw yourself into a situation with people (be it at lunch or whatever) and just join in conversations you find interesting. If they don't seem like people you'd get a long with, just get up and move - sure they might then think oddly of you, but who cares, you won't be socializing with them anyway.

Once you find a group you think you'll fit in with, be consistent in talking to them. Always try and seek them out and chill with them. Of course you shouldn't only talk to them, but it's a good place to start if you don't know anybody.

[Despot]

If i was smoker i would fit more easly... because everyone smokes there.

I think the problem is that i can't keep conversation going.. after a while i just dont know what to say. It is a bit weird and i want to fix it but i dont have clue how. When mom ask me what shoes u like i say give me just that suits my feet or something like that, i dont give much interest in stuff. So what is the problem here and how to fix it?

Please don't double post, use the edit button instead. ~Lost in the Echo

[TheLivingLie]

same thing happened to someone in my class, he is doing the opposite of what he should be doing, you should be friendly, offer help and be nice :D

[vLiinx]

Try making friends with a smaller group of people. The bigger the group the more likely some of them arent going to like another person joining.

[beluga]

Try making friends with a smaller group of people. The bigger the group the more likely some of them arent going to like another person joining.

Do exactly that.

Then, try and make friends with 1 specific person.