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Leemac1999
September 9th, 2013, 05:12 PM
I am emotionally and sexually attracted to my maths teachers I love her , I really do. All I think about is her constantly. I think about living with her and being a couple. I want her so bad . In her class I'm always hard and smiling at her when she look at me. Do you think she knows? Is this normal because my friends don't think of her like that.i know I will never be with her is there anyway to get over her?

Harley Quinn
September 9th, 2013, 05:15 PM
You need to try and get over her because teacher/student relationships never, ever work out. Plus, the added fact it'd be illegal should turn you off. Everyone has teacher crushes, just never act on them. Some things are best not to be acted out. Try and find someone your own age and go from there, basically find any means of distraction from her because if you don't you know it won't end well.

BuryYourFlame
September 9th, 2013, 05:20 PM
I'll make this very clear, a lot of times there's room for leeway in what I say, but not here.
Bad idea.
Illegal for one.
At the age gap you're talking about here both people have huge differences in emotional needs and what they expect from life and that's why it doesn't work out if there is a child involved.
And, you know, it's illegal and all.

Cygnus
September 9th, 2013, 08:42 PM
Every male teenager has a fantasy about a good looking teacher eventually, its just your hormones going crazy. You'll get over it eventually.

fast8
September 9th, 2013, 08:56 PM
Yea u should grow out of it as soon u fine one ur own age the sooner the better

teen.jpg
September 9th, 2013, 09:35 PM
Get over it. She's off limits, just pay attention in your class :lol:

anastanes
September 10th, 2013, 12:47 AM
Stay away from it! It's just a crush it will pass when you find someone else to think about.

targaryen101
September 10th, 2013, 05:44 AM
My god! I went through the exact same thing. I loved her, we were on a first name basis and all that. we were friends on facebook until I saw a post saying she got engaged!! If you did love her you would not put her whole career in jeopardy with going too far with student teacher relationships and all that..its hard but it will go eventually dont worry :)

Syvelocin
September 10th, 2013, 06:10 AM
I could never tell someone to forget about it. Love happens!

But as of now your teacher can get fired, or if your relationship ever were to go further, imprisoned. It depends how much you care for her. If you care for her as much as you sound like you do, you probably wouldn't want anything like that to happen to her. So, my advice then extends to how painful your feelings are. Would you rather strike her from your life as much as possible, or make use of this attraction?

I've had quite a few crushes on teachers. Sometimes without even knowing, like in the case of my fourth year French teacher. With these teachers, I like to spend the time to really get close to them. Develop an awesome friendship with them. I know students and teachers are on very different levels, but that has never applied to me. I've been best friends with my teachers since the beginning of secondary, and actually I find it exceedingly easy to form these friendships and have broken it down to a fine art. In primary I was still a teacher's pet, but I was so young I never bothered to bridge that gap created by blind respect.

With the teachers I've crushed on, I've had such meaningful relationships. My tenth year English teacher helped me so, so much. She gave me some of the best advice I've ever received, that I still remember to this day, about my self-harm. She would encourage me to go to the comedy plays, have a laugh, and make me promise not to cut myself over the weekend. And because it was for her, I would never break that promise.

Anyway. I just want to emphasize, although that significant other relationship probably won't work out, you can still have a meaningful and lasting relationship with her. In my head, that's so much better than nothing.

numbness
September 10th, 2013, 02:40 PM
Just try not to think about her if you can

Cece14
September 10th, 2013, 03:20 PM
find someone else to like.........