pre teen sex

[kylem]

just wanted to know what your opinion is about pre teen sex. Is it okay for it to happen, or should I wait like my parents keep telling me? Most of my friends have had sex and I get bugged all the time about still being a virgin. I want to have sex, and it would definitely be protected sex, but I don't know if I should do it. And if I start now, will sex be better like lasting longer and stuff when I'm older? And sorry I meant like sex when your between 14 and 16.

[kylem1229]

I, personally, would wait. You dont want to do something that you will regret later. But its your decision.

[Luminous]

preteens ages 9-12 should probably not be having sex unless they seriously know what they're doing. Teen sex isn't as bad, as long as anyone knows what they're doing, is safe, and completely understands it overall, they're probably ready.

edit: kylems you leave me so confused

[LouBerry]

It all just depends on you.

If you think you, and of course your partner, are ready, then that's that. But, there are things you need to think about.

First, sex is a big responsibility. Depending on who you are, what you believe, your temperament, sex can cause a lot of stress and problems in your life. For example, having sex with someone you think you're in love with, and then finding out your not, can be emotionally difficult to cope with. Or, having a pregnancy scare. Or God forbid, an unplanned pregnancy. You need to think about what you would do it those situations, and decide if it's still worth it to have sex, because this isn't kids stuff. Yeah, it's fun, it's rebellious, it feels good, but the long term effects of your actions might not, and you have to be ready to deal with that.

Also, the more sex you have, and the more partners you have, the less sex ends up meaning. Now, you might be in love right now. But, the odds of you, at fifteen, being with that person for the rest of your life are low. If you pursue this path, you might have several partners before you find the right one, and by then, it might just be sex. And that takes its toll on relationships, when sex stops being about love.

So, again, you are the only one who can determine if you are ready for this step or not, but you should take all these things into consideration.

[jeremy96]

last year in my school some kid got arrested for having sex with pre teen girls and he went to prison I think

[byee]

Pre teen sex? As in before 13? No, that shouldn't happen. Pre teens are still children, as in little ones. They are not physically or emotionally ready for sex.

As an FWI, 50% of all 16 year olds are still virgins. The only reason to have sex is when you're ready, not b/c of peer pressure.

[Derryck]

They should rlly wait. Its not........ ya know............ right.

[StoppingTime]

They should rlly wait. Its not........ ya know............ right.

They? As if you're not a teen as well? O.o


And I agree 100% with Lou, there's no strict age limit as to when you can and can't, it's a case by case kind of thing.

[Derryck]

They? As if you're not a teen as well? O.o


And I agree 100% with Lou, there's no strict age limit as to when you can and can't, it's a case by case kind of thing.

rlly? I thought there was an age limit. 16+ I believe. maybe thats just where i live.

[Running420]

As long as the girl is 15+ you should go for it !

[StoppingTime]

rlly? I thought there was an age limit. 16+ I believe. maybe thats just where i live.

Well yes that's the legal age, I was talking more on a moral level.

[Derryck]

Well yes that's the legal age, I was talking more on a moral level.

*shrug*

[TommyTom]

You will be Lasting longer when you are older if you learn how to control your Body xDD i personally would wait till i find the right Girl and not just have sex for the sake of having sex....
If you have any more quesitons send me a PM :)

[kylem]

Pre teen sex? As in before 13? No, that shouldn't happen. Pre teens are still children, as in little ones. They are not physically or emotionally ready for sex.

As an FWI, 50% of all 16 year olds are still virgins. The only reason to have sex is when you're ready, not b/c of peer pressure.

No what I meant is having sex before like between 14 and 16.

[Muscleteen]

Wait, don't rush into it!

[Frankafred]

If you and the person you want to have sex with is okay with it I say do it. But if they are not okay I say don't do it.

[Happyguy1]

if your a preteen then most of your friends are lying...

[Charara]

I'm not really sure what preteen is but I think if they're 14/15 and mature than it's fine as long as they're ready :)

[Suave]

It's fine to have sex as a preteen, and you are willing to have protected sex. But... I would wait to have sex with someone you like and dating/going out with. Really I think it's no difference have sex now and when you're 18 or older. I mean if you love the person then love them even more, if you anything your training yourself to be a better lover at a younger age.

[fast8]

You should think really hard an long about it before doing something that could change ur life forever

[jonjon1998]

Preteen means not a teen yet, so 12 or younger. So, no.

[wozemonkey]

no because they are not mature

[bayshorebayou10]

Too young. Sex is a mature thing to do, and it's a big step to take. There are so many risks involved, it's best to wait until you are ready to take that step.

[Michelle685]

I mean it depends if your ready or not

[Celtic.]

depends on how much I love the girl. I wouldent just have sex just to have sex.
as far as age 13 sounds good. anything below....ehh doesn't sound right

[West Coast Sheriff]

I lost my v-card at the age of 14. When it happened it felt great, but now I just regret it ever happened.

[jktx97]

i dont really regret losing my virginity young. do it when ur ready

[TimCox]

That's a little early

[Ricky.h]

It all just depends on you.

If you think you, and of course your partner, are ready, then that's that. But, there are things you need to think about.

First, sex is a big responsibility. Depending on who you are, what you believe, your temperament, sex can cause a lot of stress and problems in your life. For example, having sex with someone you think you're in love with, and then finding out your not, can be emotionally difficult to cope with. Or, having a pregnancy scare. Or God forbid, an unplanned pregnancy. You need to think about what you would do it those situations, and decide if it's still worth it to have sex, because this isn't kids stuff. Yeah, it's fun, it's rebellious, it feels good, but the long term effects of your actions might not, and you have to be ready to deal with that.

Also, the more sex you have, and the more partners you have, the less sex ends up meaning. Now, you might be in love right now. But, the odds of you, at fifteen, being with that person for the rest of your life are low. If you pursue this path, you might have several partners before you find the right one, and by then, it might just be sex. And that takes its toll on relationships, when sex stops being about love.

So, again, you are the only one who can determine if you are ready for this step or not, but you should take all these things into consideration.

That was so beautifully put!

[Pittsburgh]

I think 12 or younger is too soon

[tundravortex]

just wanted to know what your opinion is about pre teen sex. Is it okay for it to happen, or should I wait like my parents keep telling me? Most of my friends have had sex and I get bugged all the time about still being a virgin. I want to have sex, and it would definitely be protected sex, but I don't know if I should do it. And if I start now, will sex be better like lasting longer and stuff when I'm older? And sorry I meant like sex when your between 14 and 16.

Wait youll regret it

[JustBrowsin]

Pre-teen sex? no way. Teen sex? maybe if you are mentally and emotionally ready. after that then bang away

[ska8er]

not ready for it but would take a b/j anytime.

[Tendencies]

I don't think it's wrong, I just think i'll wait. My friend made a good point to me. Why do all these things with people you are either just meeting or have a chance of breaking up with soon. The way I see it, I want to wait until I get married so that I can have my wife for my first time for stuff, just to make it that much more special to say, "Your my first."

[airjordan97]

Agreed

It all just depends on you.

If you think you, and of course your partner, are ready, then that's that. But, there are things you need to think about.

First, sex is a big responsibility. Depending on who you are, what you believe, your temperament, sex can cause a lot of stress and problems in your life. For example, having sex with someone you think you're in love with, and then finding out your not, can be emotionally difficult to cope with. Or, having a pregnancy scare. Or God forbid, an unplanned pregnancy. You need to think about what you would do it those situations, and decide if it's still worth it to have sex, because this isn't kids stuff. Yeah, it's fun, it's rebellious, it feels good, but the long term effects of your actions might not, and you have to be ready to deal with that.

Also, the more sex you have, and the more partners you have, the less sex ends up meaning. Now, you might be in love right now. But, the odds of you, at fifteen, being with that person for the rest of your life are low. If you pursue this path, you might have several partners before you find the right one, and by then, it might just be sex. And that takes its toll on relationships, when sex stops being about love.

So, again, you are the only one who can determine if you are ready for this step or not, but you should take all these things into consideration.

[Cognizant]

Honestly, just do it when you feel comfortable. If you want to loose it next week to some random girl, then ok. If you're going to wait until you're 27 and married, that's fine too. It's when you and your partner are ready to do it.

I have no regrets for fooling around, even though the relationship I have with the person is crumbling.

[Happyguy1]

Pre Teen Sex is not right for so many reasons and pervs (adults) who prey on preteens and try to exploit them should be castrated.
Parents should still be watching preteens very carefully and educating them to know what's right and wrong etc... just my 2 cents...

[Tyler97]

I think pre teen sex is wrong, pre marital sex is wrong, the only problem with that is if you don't get married you won't have sex. Personally I have only done oral sex and don't plan to go any further until marriage. I don't want to be in debt before I'm even graduated high school and what kind of life is the poor kid going to have when his/her parents are too young to really have kids?

[nklarke]

But you are not more a pre teen.

[ChrisA1998]

Most of my friends have had sex
Thats what they say... what they actually did is another story ...

[nklarke]

not ready for it but would take a b/j anytime.

Use a condom...

[freakyindiangurl]

Correct me if I'm wrong but I could swear preteen was 11-12, and your profile says you are 15? Are you talking about you having sex with a person who is a preteen? anyway it is ultimately you and your partner choice to have sex or not. Just at least be safe about.

[Baby-Kitten]

Don't you'll miss your virginity

[Ammyneac]

No, I wouldn't recommend it.

[Get Outta Compton]

In my opinion, sex should be between consenting adults, because teens and preteens are too immature to have a sexual relationship. It's not a question of how risky it is, but how young people, especially boys, are pressured into having sexual intercourse for social status. That being said, I think it is OK for anyone not under the age of twelve to have sex if they really think and feel they are mentally, physically and psychologically for it. If you like/love a girl and wish to establish a romantic/sexual relationship with her, go ahead and I wish you the best of luck, but don't try to get it wet just because your friends are telling you to as first of all, you shouldn't care about what other people think or say about you as it doesn't matter and they are just teasing you and most of all, because at least half of your friends that tell you they are studs are probably lying. Adolescence is a period of life notably known for its tendency to induce a rush of naturally produced hormones and chemicals into the teen body, which increases libido and stress. In other words, the majority of teens are insecure and lie to cover up what they see as inappropriate. So don't worry, have sex if you want to and have a little more confidence in yourself and you'll see, girls will run to you. ;)

[melissa13]

Depends on the person