To All You Girlfriend-less Boys

[Spook]

I see a lot of people posting "Can't get a girlfriend- what do I do? Am I too ugly? Why don't girls like me?"

I'll start of by saying clothes, looks, and weight are minimal in a girl's eyes.
Let me share with you some tricks of the trade, use these wisely and you'll be a vagina magnet in no time; studmuffins.

(pay attention, these are important; boys)

Your Manual To Becoming A Vagina Magnet, in 5 Simple Steps!:

1. Most girls (not all, but many) like bad-boy kind of people. This doesn't mean she likes to get the crap beat out of her or anything, no. :yeah: It technically means that you're hard to get...you don't just fall at her knees and worship the ground she walks on. You've gotta be your own person. Being a gentleman is a nice thing, but don't overdo it. Don't go out of your way to open doors, etc. Let her know that you aren't a slave that's there at the snap of her fingers.

2. Confidence is key. In a girl's eyes, the guy is technically like a safety rope and if that rope is frayed, it's useless. In other words, don't be a pussy. :yes:

3. Don't go to the ends of the world to spend time with her. Talk her up, then WALK AWAY; to leave her wanting more. Let HER come to you. I know it sounds stupid, but don't be too available. It makes it look like they basically don't have a life. Girls like a chase, you've gotta keep dangling it just out of her reach (your time, not your dick), so she won't get bored and move on. You might even say "man, wish I could but I've got _____ I have to do." etc.

4. Humor. Don't talk with a girl about the weather, don't hold your tongue or stutter over your words. If you really need to, think out what you're gonna say before talking to her. But overall, joking and humor- making a girl laugh- that will get her attention. This is where confidence comes in, too- don't be afraid to get rejected; man up, go talk to her, joke, and then leave. Don't let her be the one to end the conversation. If you walk away, She'll soon follow, trust me. And just a last tip, don't be creepy.

5. Don't overdo it and be a jackass. When I'm talking about being a bad boy, joking around, not making yourself available; do it in a tasteful way...don't be like, "Bitch I ain't got time for you, I'm out. Hasta lavista."

~Spook

Just for review....Be hard to get, don't go out of your way, be confident, don't be a pussy, leave her wanting more, don't be too available, be humorous, don't be afraid to get rejected, don't let her be the one to end a conversation, and for god's sake; don't be a jackass about it.

Capisce?

EDIT: To the girls, if you've got anything to add, shoot! :D

[Running420]

I feel you, those are some nice tips, but i dont really follow nr 3.. if the girl is really hot and so, and your all like 'not available' wouldnt she feel i didnt really care about her.. I know you cant just be her puppet either but i guess you gotta find the golden middleway, different from girl to girl right?

[Luminous]

This could be good advice but it assumes every girl likes hard to get boys, which is not true. All the guy needs to do is talk to the girl and maybe ask her out.

[Spook]

This could be good advice but it assumes every girl likes hard to get boys, which is not true. All the guy needs to do is talk to the girl and maybe ask her out.

True, I'm just speaking from experience and convos with other girls. :D
It's kind of dependant....you need to know what the girl likes, then choose what to do based on that.

[Luminous]

True, I'm just speaking from experience and convos with other girls. :D
It's kind of dependant....you need to know what the girl likes, then choose what to do based on that.

Right, and that's why there are so many questions from people on here wondering how to get a GF, they are all in different situations and don't find answers on other topics so they make their own.
Overall, though, I think this advice will help some people because there definitely are quite a few girls that will appreciate a boy playing hard to get.

[Cygnus]

This is quite the truth, I hope all those people making threads here read this.

[teen.jpg]

What happened to being yourself? Or do we just have to completely act one way to have a relationship ...

[Anna G]

Just be friendly don't get hung up on the sexual thing. I have two boy friends and it was not planned one got to know working on a class project together. The other during a soccer game we were both watching. Often it's easier to meet people when you hang out with a group. Relax and be creative let it happen naturally.

[Mynick]

What happened to being yourself? Or do we just have to completely act one way to have a relationship ...
This. I agree with some of the points of this thread but certainly not all. In my opinion you should act according what the girl likes. But you shouldn't act in a way that your normal self, so to speak, would not do.

[Running420]

What happened to being yourself? Or do we just have to completely act one way to have a relationship ...

This. I agree with some of the points of this thread but certainly not all. In my opinion you should act according what the girl likes. But you shouldn't act in a way that your normal self, so to speak, would not do.

Worst bullshit.. So when you talk to a girl for the first time, your just yourself like you would talk to anyone else? Dont you try to make the best possible first impression, and try to make her like you? Cause then you have the answer why you dont do girls...

Of course you should be yourself IN a relationship, but who says you even want that?

[Mynick]

Worst bullshit.. So when you talk to a girl for the first time, your just yourself like you would talk to anyone else? Dont you try to make the best possible first impression, and try to make her like you? Cause then you have the answer why you dont do girls...

Of course you should be yourself IN a relationship, but who says you even want that?
Studies prove that you have 7 seconds to make and impression on a person you just met, furthermore we take 3, or so, seconds to judge a person. I would rather be who i am but do anything i can to impress her rather than act in a completely different way just to make a great impression.

[Running420]

Studies prove that you have 7 seconds to make and impression on a person you just met, furthermore we take 3, or so, seconds to judge a person. I would rather be who i am but do anything i can to impress her rather than act in a completely different way just to make a great impression.

What do you mean being who you are? Of course you are who you are, but that doesnt mean shouldnt try to get an advantage using words.

Imagine some loner thats scared to talk to girls and dont have any friends. He move to a new school, nobody knows him or anything. If he goes to a girl, and build up a fake confidence, and ask her out. You think thats wrong? You think he should be 'himself' and talk to her nervous looking in the ground?

Dude you have to understand the game!!!

[Mynick]

What do you mean being who you are? Of course you are who you are, but that doesnt mean shouldnt try to get an advantage using words.

Imagine some loner thats scared to talk to girls and dont have any friends. He move to a new school, nobody knows him or anything. If he goes to a girl, and build up a fake confidence, and ask her out. You think thats wrong? You think he should be 'himself' and talk to her nervous looking in the ground?

Dude you have to understand the game!!!
I'm not saying that's wrong, sure i even support it. What i was trying to say, maybe i explain it in a poor way, is you shouldn't do anything that goes against what you belive or against your 'limits' just to impress a girl.

[Spook]

Never anywhere in my post did I mention something that required changing yourself. I actually put in there "you have to be your own person, not a slave." I'm just telling you what you shouldn't do; the turnoffs of quite a few girls.

Technically I'm saying "Man up and don't be a little bitch."
I don't recall any girl telling me they liked shy dudes who blush and mumble. We go for those guys who come up and talk to us. And I am not contradicting myself, by saying "hard to get" I don't mean to totally ignore the girl, btw. :P

[numbness]

I like "bad boys " but having someone safe and sensible is good

[Cece14]

So true for me aha

[teen.jpg]

Worst bullshit.. So when you talk to a girl for the first time, your just yourself like you would talk to anyone else? Dont you try to make the best possible first impression, and try to make her like you? Cause then you have the answer why you dont do girls...

Of course you should be yourself IN a relationship, but who says you even want that?

You can't make someone like you. Either they do or they don't.

[Plasma]

True, I'm just speaking from experience and convos with other girls. :D
It's kind of dependant....you need to know what the girl likes, then choose what to do based on that.

Annnnnnd that right there is where most guys have trouble. "You need to know what the girl likes". That is WAY easier said than done...

[badthoughts]

I actually put in there "you have to be your own person, not a slave."
Some guys like being a slave. Oops, I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing.

http://www.moonbattery.com/assets_c/2010/03/bondage-thumb-486x365-1408.jpg

I don't recall any girl telling me they liked shy dudes who blush and mumble
Shy Ronnie gets no love?

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m581adHcId1qh0b3jo2_500.gif

"You need to know what the girl likes". That is WAY easier said than done...
All girls like the same thing, and I know what it is. Want a hint? Sounds like shyan shosling. Also sounds like shuke shryan or sheorge shloony or shrad shi...uh, you get the idea.

http://blog.zap2it.com/pop2it/ryan-gosling-gq.jpg

[Plasma]

Some guys like being a slave. Oops, I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing.

image (http://www.moonbattery.com/assets_c/2010/03/bondage-thumb-486x365-1408.jpg)


Shy Ronnie gets no love?

image (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m581adHcId1qh0b3jo2_500.gif)


All girls like the same thing, and I know what it is. Want a hint? Sounds like shyan shosling. Also sounds like shuke shryan or sheorge shloony or shrad shi...uh, you get the idea.

image (http://blog.zap2it.com/pop2it/ryan-gosling-gq.jpg)

None of which guys can be...

[Celtic.]

the girls at my school like the big muscular or EXTREMELY skinny guys. I get like no love........but Im a master at spittin game

[Spook]

Some guys like being a slave. Oops, I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing.

image (http://www.moonbattery.com/assets_c/2010/03/bondage-thumb-486x365-1408.jpg)


Shy Ronnie gets no love?

image (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m581adHcId1qh0b3jo2_500.gif)


All girls like the same thing, and I know what it is. Want a hint? Sounds like shyan shosling. Also sounds like shuke shryan or sheorge shloony or shrad shi...uh, you get the idea.

image (http://blog.zap2it.com/pop2it/ryan-gosling-gq.jpg)

I'm a girl, I don't have any particular attraction to Ryan Gosling or any other of the above.

Try more like...Colton Haynes. :3

[vLiinx]

if they girl plays hard to get as well we're going to have a problem hah

[Saint of Sinners]

Not that i have much experience or whatnot, but it seems to me that appearance isn't really that important. Different girls find different appearances attractive. Some like muscular guys, some like cute guys and some even like chubby guys.

On the other hand, i totally agree with "Man up and don't be a little bitch." Nobody likes a doormat. You can be a nice guy without being a pushover. But manning up doesn't mean you change who you are, you still do the same stuff, like the same things, just with more confidence and.

[Celtic.]

I'm a girl, I don't have any particular attraction to Ryan Gosling or any other of the above.

Try more like...Colton Haynes. :3
I thought he was gay?