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jeremy96
September 8th, 2013, 10:33 PM
Ever since I was 12 I have been attracted to guys and I am not sexual attracted to girls but I liked a 1 girl in my class before but that is kind of it. I also am 17 so is there any chance at all that this is going to change ? I don't really like being this way I have an on off switch where one moment all be fine and the next all have this rage because it seems to much for me. What do I do ?

whywontthiswork
September 8th, 2013, 10:37 PM
Like guys. No point in trying to be someone your not. You said you crushed on a girl? Well i guess that youre Bi and there is nothing wrong with that. I was going to say it might be a phase but Ive never seen this phase last 5 years.

teen.jpg
September 9th, 2013, 12:06 AM
I don't think you're attraction is actually changing, it probably just depends on the person.

Jamie_P
September 15th, 2013, 11:03 AM
theres no point being upset about what gender you like, you cant help it. Theres loads of professional advice lines on sexuality, im sure you can find some in your local area. having said that, your sexual preference can always change. Bottom line is, accept who you are and everyone else will accept you too. Don't get downhearted by it. Just have fun finding yourself, you'll be a lot happier in the long run.

sqishy
September 15th, 2013, 01:34 PM
Your orientation may well change as you get older, but it's best you accept what you are now. If it changes, accept that. It's better to get along with your feelings :).

ksdnfkfr
September 15th, 2013, 01:39 PM
I think you've got to just ride it out until you come to your destination and know for sure.

Twilly F. Sniper
September 15th, 2013, 02:06 PM
It'll stabilize. Mine used to fluctuate a bit at points too.
You really don't need to stress on tyhe gender(s) you like...

Fruit_Tart.
September 15th, 2013, 02:48 PM
There is a chance it could change if you suddenly find women as sexually attractive as men. If you consistently think of men sexually and even romantically, it just means that you're going to like their intimate company more than women.

I don't think you should do anything. Don't try to change yourself. Do what feels natural to you. Express yourself any way you feel and don't do what anyone make you feel like you need to change.