Experimenting

[Zwxg]

I've been reading a lot about how guys have experimented with other guys. As of now, I really want to experiment with my friend. He's 15 and I'm 16. The thing is we're both straight so would this be kinda gay?

[sdude]

Call it what u want, it is "gay" sex if it happens between two guys, but it doesn't mean u are "gay" for life, just that u had a gay experience..can't really tell stories of what I have done, that would be "storytelling" and we could be banned. Hit me up on private if u want to...

[countryboi9]

experiment with your buddy don't mean u r gay man

[James Bond]

If you want to do anything sexual with a guy, it will be considered gay.

You must be careful with experimenting,because it can completely ruin a friendship.

[ska8er]

my best friend and i watched a porn straight video on the web and we both got boners. i told him i was gonna jack and he did the same. we got so worked up we just gave each other a hand job. we still do it sometimes and dont talk bout it. if it was with someone else maybe they would not want to look u in the eyes after that. i read some of the posts here and im thinking of the guys in class and what they r doing.

[ksdnfkfr]

It is kinda gay. Not gay, but kinda. Lots of straight guys experiment. If I explained what happened that would be against the rules as story telling, so you might want to edit that part of your post. Some guys will say it didn't go well after it happened. My friend and I are either bi or gay, so it being kinda gay wasn't a problem in our case. If it happens it just happens and there's risk involved.

[ska8er]

Call it what u want, it is "gay" sex if it happens between two guys, but it doesn't mean u are "gay" for life, just that u had a gay experience..can't really tell stories of what I have done, that would be "storytelling" and we could be banned. Hit me up on private if u want to...

i bet a lot of straight guys experiment cause they r horny. my grand dad
served in VietNam and he told me once that in hospitals if a soldier could not use his hands a fellow soldier would help him sexually to ease tension. why he told i wonder but u cant say they were gay.

if this is storytelling and being banned i dont c y it could b used against anyone. its part of puberty an growing up. if everyone just said it was just normal this place would b boring. :rolleyes:

[Aus10]

No it's not gay. I tried it, well lets just say I'm gay/bi/whatever now.

[justin 13]

Experimenting for my str8 friends is kinda gay. Im gay BTW not out tho.

[Josh from SoCal]

Do you need to label yourself or what you do? It is what it is. Two people who care enough about each other that they trust one another on a very intimate level. You are both amazing friends and you both can rely on each other to respect each other's privacy and because of this you can share experiences that no one else does.

Jerking each other off is just that. It feels better than when you do it by yourself. IMO, if that's as far as things go, fine. If you both decide you want to take things further, then at that point you may be in an area that some classify as bi. But why stick a label on it? If you both want to do it with each other and you both respect each other and really care that much, then it's chill.

It's called LOVE. You can love your best friend on a lot of levels and still not be bi or gay.

[Catholic Guy]

If you are just experimenting and there aren't feelings involved then it's not 'gay', when you bring feelings in that's when you can be labeled as 'gay' otherwise it's curiosity

[matshorter]

Call it what u want, it is "gay" sex if it happens between two guys, but it doesn't mean u are "gay" for life, just that u had a gay experience...

True words!! Just go for it, if it's okay for you both.

[TommyTom]

Some stuff you could consider beeing gay but that does not mean you are gay and even if you are bi or gay is there something wrong with that???
You are just curious soo dont be afraid and have fun :)

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[byee]

Being gay isnt just defined by your activities, it's mostly about feelings and the way you see yourself and others. The "Gay" part of this is that it's same sex, i think that's what you;re referring to.

The issue isn't the gayness, btw..it's the 'Experimentation' part. As with any experiment, you have to be prepared for the results. In this case, what you (and your friend) felt/thought about the experience and if that's worth it, and how that will effect things.

A lot of times people trot out the "Experimentation" justification as a way of feeling less anxious about something that they're not so sure about. Looked at that way, it's best to think beyond the desire to satisfy one's curiosity and play out in your mind the possible scenarios that might result and make your decision based on that, rather than urge that creates the opportunity.

[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

You must be careful with experimenting,because it can completely ruin a friendship

[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

Being gay isnt just defined by your activities, it's mostly about feelings and the way you see yourself and others. The "Gay" part of this is that it's same sex, i think that's what you;re referring to.

The issue isn't the gayness, btw..it's the 'Experimentation' part. As with any experiment, you have to be prepared for the results. In this case, what you (and your friend) felt/thought about the experience and if that's worth it, and how that will effect things.

A lot of times people trot out the "Experimentation" justification as a way of feeling less anxious about something that they're not so sure about. Looked at that way, it's best to think beyond the desire to satisfy one's curiosity and play out in your mind the possible scenarios that might result and make your decision based on that, rather than urge that creates the opportunity

[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

Some stuff you could consider beeing gay but that does not mean you are gay and even if you are bi or gay is there something wrong with that???
You are just curious soo dont be afraid and have fun

[justinglives]

my best friend and i watched a porn straight video on the web and we both got boners. i told him i was gonna jack and he did the same. we got so worked up we just gave each other a hand job. we still do it sometimes and dont talk bout it. if it was with someone else maybe they would not want to look u in the eyes after that. i read some of the posts here and im thinking of the guys in class and what they r doing.

Just because u and a buddy (or 2 or 3....) do something sexual to see what it feels like, or just to get off, is just that. Nothing "gay" about it unless you decide you want it to be. Most guys, I think have been experimental with other guys. It's the hormones talking!! Some guys go farther with each other than others. But if you both agree that it's just experimental and just "helping a bud out....." don't worry about it. Just enjoy the experience!!

[Jamie_P]

I dont think its gay to experiment with your friend as long as you are both okay with it and that you are both comfortable with your sexuality. You're both just at that stage in your lives where you are naturally curious and want to experiment. Theres nothing wring with it.

[Pete_Dude]

I've been reading a lot about how guys have experimented with other guys. As of now, I really want to experiment with my friend. He's 15 and I'm 16. The thing is we're both straight so would this be kinda gay?

Too me it's just a normal part of puberty.